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TonyaMarie

@TonyaMarie@chaosfem.tw

Middle-aged trans woman in Seattle. Semi-retired math teacher and coder, full-time housewife.

I love cooking, boardgames, RPGs, and SF/F.

Check out my cooking toots under #WhatIsTonyaMarieCooking.

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Impossible_PhD, to random
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Happy fine-ass Friday, my assorted gender gremlins, as I head to Commander night!

TonyaMarie,
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@miriamrobern @Impossible_PhD I suspect it's a Magic: The Gathering night?

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD @miriamrobern I haven't played Magic in 25 years, so that doesn't mean anything to me, but good luck and have fun torturing the adolescents with that top! 😁

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD @miriamrobern ... I have never seen a MtG tourney that didn't have a hefty number of adolescents! Is this a private gathering, or do you just have a mature audiences game store? :D

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Did you know... when yer a grown up you can eat cookies whenever dah fuck ya want?

TonyaMarie,
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@vlrny I'm doing my part!

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It’s hot and I’m going to Home Depot you need anything

TonyaMarie,
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@rooster I had been looking for a new lamppost, but one seems to have suddenly appeared out of nowhere ...

Impossible_PhD, to random
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I went outside in a mini without leggings for the first time today.

I was scared, but it went fine!

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD It's a glorious feeling, isn't it? 💕

TonyaMarie, to random
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New nails!

JoscelynTransient, to trans
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TRANS FRIENDS:
Would you be willing to let me share pictures of your transition timeline on my blog?

There are so many of us that feel like it will be impossible to ever be ourselves. I want to show what social transition, HRT, and/or gender-affirming surgeries are capable of doing for us because I know that would have made a difference for me once upon a time.

If you can reply or send me a direct message with your timeline or before/after images, and let me know whether you want your name/masto handle on it or if you would prefer to have no name/handle on it, I would really appreciate it! The piece in question will discuss a little bit of complicated history of the before/after transition images but then focus on the power of seeing how dynamic our bodies are and how much is possible through different kinds of transition. If you change your mind after sharing, I can always remove your images.

TonyaMarie,
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@JoscelynTransient December 2018 (best pre-crack picture I have) and March 2024 (2.5 years HRT, 3 months after BA). First name ("Tonya Marie") only, please.

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD OMG thanks! 😊

I dunno how you've missed me, I've been taking a ton of selfies! I even posted an entire fashion show one day when I was bored and going through my wife's closet! 🤣

Since you missed it, here's my St Pat's day fit!

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TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD
Here's the fashion show, for your entertainment. :D

https://chaosfem.tw/@TonyaMarie/111932646975995032

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Impossible_PhD, to random
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I'm excited. Monday's SGW is one of my biggest ever, and it's one I've been wanting to write for a long time.

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD Tease! We have to wait all weekend after hearing that? 🙃

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD Eh, I'm a cold medicine zombie right now, I can barely remember what you said five minutes ago...

What were we talking about? 🤪

TonyaMarie, to random
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My new cuddle buddy needs a name. Any suggestions?

TonyaMarie, to random
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Stylin' for St Pat's!

TonyaMarie,
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Me and my wife! 💜💜💜

TonyaMarie,
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And can I just say how intensely pleased with myself I am at my first outing where I get handed beads and they go into my cleavage

❤️ ☘️ ❤️ ☘️ ❤️ ☘️ ❤️

Impossible_PhD, to random
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Four years ago, and about six months before I hatched, I finally managed to choke the word "bimbo" out of my mouth at a therapy appointment, after something like two years of trying.

Overwhelmed with shame does not begin to describe how I'd always felt about my attraction to the whole galaxy of that idea.

Even afterwards, it was something I held close, tender, something I felt profound shame over. It felt so misogynistic; I was terrified women of all types would cast me out over it.

🧵(1/?)

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD Having been the "gifted kid" who got told "you can do anything" and was expected to ...

Admitting that I don't want to have a "high-value" job that shows off my intelligence and instead just want to be a fucking housewife took a lot. I am amazingly fortunate that my wife has a high paying job and fully supports me in this. It's not "bimbo" per se, but I am so done being the smart kid. I want to be cute.

Impossible_PhD, (edited ) to random
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WAYLP

LOOKS LIKE THIS GIRL NEEDS TO REVISE HER HOW TO QUESTION YOUR GENDER ARTICLE!

Joking aside, fantastic news for Finn, and all the congratulations in the world to him (he/him genderfluid)!!! 🖤💜💛🤍

https://youtu.be/3reFDwM0yIA?feature=shared

TonyaMarie,
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@Impossible_PhD I absolutely love the bit at the end with his parents. ❤️

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  • TonyaMarie,
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    @rooster This sounds like a great party, and I want to attend!

    TonyaMarie, to random
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    Too much side boob?

    TonyaMarie,
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    How about some boob windows?

    sebwhatever, to actuallyautistic
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    @actuallyautistic

    I can not stress how much I love Dropout! They are such a breath of fresh air! Everything they do has a good, wholesome energy to it. From the top down, Sam Reich has helmed hope! Inclusive! Ethical! But most of all, funny!

    Game Changer, their flagship show has just begun its sixth season and Dimension 20's latest Fantasy High season is off and running!

    Look them up, give them a shot!

    TonyaMarie,
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    @sebwhatever @actuallyautistic Huge Dropout fan! My wife and I are working our way through all of Dimension 20, and we regularly sit and watch episodes of Game Changer and Um, Actually... with our daughter after brunch. ❤️

    TonyaMarie, to transgender
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    While chaosfem was down yesterday, I logged into my 8pt account in case I needed to get my fedi fix from there. While there I found a bookmark to my original "Trans Joy" thread on tech, and realized it's been a year since then.

    So on this Valentine's day, let's get another round of positivity:

    I'd love to hear people's favorite positive responses to their coming out from friends/family/etc.

    Here's the original post for any who want to see the responses there:
    https://tech.lgbt/@TonyaMarie/109616833257260847

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  • TonyaMarie,
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    @rooster @weilawei It did make me realize I haven't backed up my followers/following list in a while, I should do that in case of extended outage in the future.

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