Chais,
@Chais@sh.itjust.works avatar

That’s his choice to make.

DarkGamer,
DarkGamer avatar

This is such a stupid hill to die on.

ReCursing,
ReCursing avatar

Can she fuck off for two years then, please? And then do so again after that, and again, and again...

HubertManne,
HubertManne avatar

I would prefer to not live in a place that would put someone in jail for something as asinine as pronoun usage.

karobeccary,

Good news, you do live in that place, because this is an entirely made up scenario painted by an entitled bigot in an attempt to cast herself as the victim. No one is going or has ever gone to jail for using the wrong pronouns.

HubertManne,
HubertManne avatar

oh yeah I read it. Thats what I meant. Her hypothetical has a lot more issues than her particular beliefs. So I meant it as. Why would you be worried about X when you society for some reason is putting folks in prison for speech. That would be a way bigger issue.

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

How often are you correctly gendered as a percentage as you go about your life?

HubertManne,
HubertManne avatar

Im not even sure what your asking. But again who the F cares if your living in some facist state putting you in prison. See what im trying to say is the fantasy land she is talking about is worse than the subject she is talking about.

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

Nah, how often does the kind of dehumanization she's gleefully defending hit you?

This thing you're so confident you want to defend to the death her right or whatever...
...how often does the thing you are opining on harm you?

HubertManne,
HubertManne avatar

How am I in any way defending her. Because I say living in a police state would be worse. If I say having radiation sickness would be worse is it to much. Nothing is worse than the gender thing? I think I get what your asking. Not in a long time but plenty when I was young. You have to remember though that in those days it was totally common for gym teachers to refer to boys in girl terms I think because they thought it would motivate them or some shit. So not just jerk kids.

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

And you feel that qualifies you to speak about what should and should not be done in response to transphobia, does it?

southsamurai,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Look. When you start jailing people for being rude as fuck, it’s a problem.

There is zero requirement to be a target for trans hate to know that. Don’t be a jackass

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

You're so kind to defend the racist billionaire's right to dehumanize people. Where would she be without you looking after her interests?

southsamurai,
@southsamurai@sh.itjust.works avatar

Really? Are you that bad of a troll that you can’t come up with something better than that?

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

You sure do put alot of effort into defending hatemongers.
At any point here you could have shut the fuck up but you keep deciding JK needs your backing.

HubertManne,
HubertManne avatar

No. Being human qualifies me to remark on another remark another human made. My comment isn't even about trasnphobia as I have said like a million times. Its that she makes this delusional thing about being put in jail for speech which is a way worse situation. And yes that end part im making a qualification on how bad transphobia might be but I don't need some sort of degree to have an opinion on human nature. I am a human. Anyway I will take having my sex misidentified constantly over living in a non free state. What is wrong with you that you would think thats a better situation?!

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

You sure do know alot about the proper way to respond to an oppression you don't experience. Very impressive, that.

HubertManne,
HubertManne avatar

So fine. I will remember that when political issues come up. Sorry im not taking any trans related issues because FfaerieOxide feels Im not qualified on the issue. So barring that I would vote for this guy and since I can't take it into account not to vote for him. Man I feel so bad for all of them going to the gulag but what can I do as im not qualified on this issue and I certainly would not want to overstep my bounds.

Xylia,

So, since I’m trans, am I allowed to say that instituting a law where we jail people over saying something rude seems awful to me.

Maybe it’s just because I’m an American, used to our constitutionally protected freedom of speech. But I think the ramifications for an average person misgendering someone should probably be limited to social ramifications rather than government ordained punitive ones.

Now if it’s a doctor or government employee or something there’s a discussion to be had.

FfaerieOxide, (edited )
FfaerieOxide avatar

You're allowed to be wrong, but at least your nose and partially your business. She isn't going to pick you, though.
There is a high probability that's a snootier reply than you perhaps deserve. Not in the best place today. I don't retract it by I turn the volume down.

Not that I think anyone should be in jail for anything ever, but intentional rebuke of a trans person's gender should result in a severe assbeating and social censure.

Xylia,

“She isn’t going to pick you” lol as far as I’m concerned JK Rowling can die in a fucking fire. Harry Potter is ass anyway. You’re just angry that there are people out there who don’t want to see people arrested over non-crimes.

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

I'm more perturbed people unaffected by her fuckshit deign chime in to say her bullshit hypothetical "...would be terrible, to be fair" as if it's a thing or she and her worldview need defending. As though the people who need to speak up about how everyone's a perfect right to be a bigot are the ones unaffected by that bigotry.

You, I'm more annoyed at for encouraging them. They'll never learn to channel their Birbiglia that way.
Still, I've no quarrel with you.

This whole thing hasn't even been about what is or isn't true, but who should and should not shut the fuck up and when.

Xylia,

Also, to clarify. I also have no quarrel with you directly. Because I’m adult engaging in conversation online, and know how to compartmentalize and contextualize like an adult.

Xylia,

This whole chain started because someone mentioned they’d hate to live in a jurisdiction that arrested people for misgendering someone. I’m inclined to agree.

Whether or not you feel people are justified in holding their views has ZERO bearing here. It’s quite telling how you think you’re the arbitrator on who and who does not get a say.

And to be clear, fuck bigots and bigotry. I hate ‘em all. Hope they all die painful deaths. I just don’t want governments that don’t already have it to suddenly gain the authority to arrest based on offending people, because it doesn’t take too long before that starts getting abused by the exact type of people who fuck over people like me regularly.

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

Cis people still don't need to be saying how important it is for other cis people to be free to misgender trans people.

They should do that other thing: shutting the fuck up.

Xylia,

If you can ONLY see this issue in the light of whether or not people can misgender trans people, you're already engaging in bad faith.

FfaerieOxide,
FfaerieOxide avatar

We've been over this:

This is not about who should or should not misgender trans people (the answer is "no one" but, again, that is not what any of this is about).

This is about who has moral authority to get all West Wing about a group-they-are-not-part-of's oppression.

SplicedBrainwrap,

You don’t and won’t, she is misrepresenting the situation

Taco2112,

If JK Rowling chooses to call someone something different than what they prefer, what’s to stop us from collectively deciding that her name is Sarah Smith, seems like she doesn’t care so why should we.

stephfinitely,

Should you get jail time for using the wrong pronouns No. Should someone be able to sue you in civil court for using the wrong pronouns in a malicious form especially in a public form.

Hairyblue,
Hairyblue avatar

Is there even a law requiring the proper pronoun be used for a person? Seems like you could be a dick and call everyone by the wrong pronoun and still not go to jail.

SplicedBrainwrap,

There isn’t one nor is there a proposal for one, she is misrepresenting the situation.

DessertStorms,
DessertStorms avatar

Bigots love claiming victimhood where there is none...

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