@tine_schreibt@actuallyautistic I suppose, yes. To the question "who are you ?" I answer with what is expected (country of residence, job etc) by imitation. But in fact, I don't really know what to say. Most people are interested in knowing things I don't consider as identifying (where I live, what is my job, if I have children), all those things found in small talk. But it has nothing to do with identity! Thinking about it, idk how ppl can find these answers satisfying.