I honestly low-key love it when someone in a car yells out “FAGGOT” when I’m walking down the street. I just give them the gayest little wave and yell back “hey girl!” with a huge smile. I enjoy the validation that I succeed in being visibly queer.
Of course, I live somewhere very safe and decently queer-friendly. I probably wouldn’t enjoy it if I felt in danger, but it’s typically a bunch of teenagers who are clearly in their edgy phase.