apotheotic,

And it’ll continue to spike up until we hit the “actual” values, when we are destigmatized and, hopefully, not oppressed by systems and people.

https://beehaw.org/pictrs/image/96b6a1f9-7b35-43a0-ba06-3524f3cbfbfd.webp

Eryn6844,

Sigh i must be really terrible. can’t even find a casual girl friend.

Gaywallet,
@Gaywallet@beehaw.org avatar

Just because it’s tough out there doesn’t mean you’re terrible! I hope you find someone soon, you deserve it.

ShaunaTheDead,

Don't forget that bisexual and pansexual are included. It's very common for basically all women to identify as bisexual at least, because women sure are pretty!

KrokanteBamischijf,

I’d be interested to know if the survey includes trans women under the ‘women’ category. This seems like a real dilemma which can skew the numbers even more.

Depending on if you limit your categories to AFAB or not, you’ll get different numbers for the total percentage of LGBTQIA+.

I could just read the article of course, but who has that kind of time xD.

uriel238,
@uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Here to say this. I suspect in a sex positive society that didn’t look poorly on bisexuals, we’d have 50% or more bi and pan. Curiously, while bi women are regarded as LGBT+ by MAGA and Christian nationalists, bi men have to commonly remain closeted when in a het relationship. I don’t personally understand the why, but it’s a thing.

Lmaydev,

Bisexuality in men is often viewed as them being gay but not willing to admit it.

entropicdrift,
@entropicdrift@lemmy.sdf.org avatar

I’m a pansexual man married to a pansexual woman. We’re both millenials.

Basically, when we were growing up, there was a perception that men who were ever attracted to other men, in any context and for any reason, were considered fully gay, which at the time meant bullying, being ostracized, threats of violence, and generally being treated as a lesser by your peers.

This waned somewhat as we got to high school and disappeared for the most part some time in the mid 2010s (so, well after graduation), but the cultural scar is still there.

Even now I’d call myself mostly-closeted. People from my generation and older will treat (or at least historically have treated) a man as if he’s gay and in-denial even if he’s like a solid 2 on the Kinsey scale. That’s annoying in-itself, but the scars of how our culture was when I was growing up make it a deeply frightening prospect. I have no idea how many friends I’d lose. I hope it’d be zero since I try to pick good people, but who knows?

Being old sucks. Don’t let the olds lie and say the culture was better back in the day. It wasn’t. They either floated by with crazy privilege or decided their emotionally stunting trauma was a good thing.

Dagwood222,

Taylor Tomlinson had a great joke.

She said she didn’t want to date woman because she was too old to learn a new skill set.

gregorum,

i 🏳️‍🌈 this

Gaywallet,
@Gaywallet@beehaw.org avatar

Hell yea I love this

scrubbles,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

Now please vote in November and show these idiots that they’re out of date

SinAdjetivos,

Ok Boomer 🙄

scrubbles,
@scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech avatar

I’m a millennial literally encouraging people to vote against the boomers…

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