For me it's because usually, if one has more than 3 or 4 partners it's just not possible for them to give all of them proper care and love, there's a big chance that some, or many of these people will start feeling left out
But to each their own I guess, it's just my personal opinion
I don’t understand how I’m not making connections with them as I do stuff with everyone. Though I was specifically asking if there’s any basic ones I forget. Like Puppy, Kit, Flower. Ones like those which I’ve used already. I don’t mind creating names from interest but I thought it worth checking. Though I don’t understand what you mean by not making connections with them. I mean if you’re talking about having literal notes on each one of them in my phone. Their dislikes, likes, hobbies, and more. Even their blood type, childhood and more. Then taking them on crazy dates and or cuddling them at home watching movies they like or the fact I make crazy and extraordinary proposals even though they joined into the marriage technically. Then helping them overcome fears mainly with family. Though trust me I wish I could do more. So if that’s not creating connections I don’t know what is. Also what is too much partners like personally I can give out so much love.
Then I should also add I give myself to them as a full on slave. They only ask me to maybe feed them strawberries covered in chocolate while at their knees. I will do it in a heart beat. Anything they ask me I’ll do. I live and die for servitude.
Tbh the names I’ve always found online but I give them to specific ppl for specific reasons. Though for bragging, I’ve never had any intent to brag rather the reason I post things is there for questions or to break social norms like why do people put crazy standards as long as they don’t abuse you. Though yeah I’ve read through a link someone tagged of a sex cult and it didn’t seem anything like the pin points. Though I will admit I own two cults of my own I created one similar to the creed games and the second a very very old type of cult where it is a sex cult but to worship Dionysus and I kinda had to drag my original husband into it so it’d be created. Then I was able to wear my collar in certain places that normally wouldn’t allow it.
To me it sounds like you’re making it up. Forty-nine partners is more than a believable amount; I don’t even care if it is true. You sound like a kid bragging online for the first time, and it’s hard to take you seriously.
If you are telling the truth and wanted to be taken more seriously, I would start with being more vague about the numbers. No one needs to know about all forty-nine.
But that’s just me. I can’t speak for anyone else. Also, I have you tagged in my App as “49 Wives” and every time you I chuckle a little.
I mean I am young and rather bad at communication overall so that doesn’t surprise me. Though honestly I’m more trying to challenge social norms and make awareness that people can just love. lol there’s 23 men and 26 ladies actually 😅
Also I’m very factual and detailed because I’m autistic and traumatized 🤣🤣
Also I’m very factual and detailed because I’m autistic and traumatized
I kinda figured. That’s why I answered instead of ignoring you. But it also does add to the sex cult thing. That is just way too many partners for the average person to keep up with. At least 8x the amount I’m comfortable with.
Suggestion for everyone to remove expectations besides no abuse and whatever type of faithful your relationship requires. Then flow whichever way the wind blows. It’s the understanding we will never do anything perfect and we all make mistakes. Though as long as we try and grow and learn from those mistakes that’s what matters most. Love is not a straight path and so expect the unexpected.
See that’s understandable, maybe most people won’t be able to do it. Though I will say it’s a bit simpler and easier than some believe. For example most of the time we’re just at home doing small things or pairs go out sometime. Then some are always busy and independent. Which yes I miss them but they’re achieving their dreams. Then otherwise easiest way to communicate is through journals.
Hey I read your other posts and I agree with the cult thing. I would suggest you try to check for signs. Best of luck and please try stop engaging in sexual relationships with your partners mothers, fathers, siblings and other relatives.
Looking through the main view points none actually match. Though I don’t understand the issue with sexual relationships with my partners Mothers, Fathers and siblings? To me I’m just giving them the same love and care as I do anyone else in the poly.
1: Yeah if anything I’d be considered the leader as I’ve made the big ideas of giving them the best life and helping them grow
2: The love never left or lowered. Personally I stay in high school first love feeling always
3: Does not happen at all we don’t all believe the same and yes some of us have worse views on life but due to trauma though certain things we do agree on
4: So we have no reward exactly the reason I add people is only to protect and care for them. Also my original wife recently said I was waiting for the day we stop adding people and the rest don’t care. Though I said why though people are beautiful.
5: yeah no one has to leave their family or friends. Now I’ll say if family is being extremely toxic and or harming them I will remove them from the persons life. Though only to make sure they’re happy and safe.
6:No isolation, One my wives Mommy basically lives and roams the forests of the world. Then singers and movie stars have their own life mainly. Then everyone else can go wherever they want or do whatever they want as long as they’re safe and happy.
7: I mean all of us hate Trump? Though we don’t all hate the same people or influence ppl to hate others has we all don’t see the same views.
8: Its been three years and no one has left on their own. We kicked two people out for cheating.
9: I used to be untrusting though after the first year maybe year and a half. I started trusting everyone.
10: Yeah we have no worry about others knowing we normally meet everyone’s parents and or friends and almost everyone who knows us knows how it works.
11: Hahahaa I mean I’ve technically tortured my husband but it was something he was ok with but didn’t expect. Though otherwise no.
12: Also there’s been noting planned of that sorts.
I think it’s because it absolutely stretches the limits of what most people imagine can be done based on time. Like that’s my initial thought. I barely have time for three partners, once you get past ten it’s difficult to imagine how you manage the scheduling alone unless you’ve got like a commune going.
Another thing to mentions normally we have them write in journals of things they want and or things not going well. So we can communicate without nervous talking unless really needed too. Which don’t get me wrong communication through talking is always improving but sometimes it’s just easier to use a journal. Otherwise we make an effort never to yell or fight. Instead try our best to communicate calmly.
Thank you so much for your answer!!! Though I see what you mean I guess there is no schedule and since everyone is with everyone (almost beside blood relations) their not dependent on one person for love or comfort so while one person is out with another most of the time they’ll just go to someone else or we honestly most of the time don’t do anything we’re just separated between two main houses and when they wake up. We’re just there talking and or doing different small things.
Which then there are the almost totally independent ones, like my wife mommy, she basically lives in the wilderness. Is only home like once or twice a month. Then Lord, Villman and Sjøengel are movie actors they’re out busy with their life or their own kids. Then like Fae, Pebble, and Bear are singers too. So they have their own life but still more around more than the actors but still really busy.
Yeah what you’re saying makes a certain amount of sense but when I mentally model it it keeps looking more like a nonromantic commune than something like my relationships where a handful of people struggle to have time even though we don’t have any triads or anything like that in our polycule. And that’s probably why people go to cult. I don’t even have that many friends I interact with on a regular basis, and that’s despite being involved in communities and such.
Yeah that makes sense and same on the friend part most were friends of my partners or we just randomly meet them. Like at the business we own Tuesday we met Sam ( don’t have a name yet) they where with their friend and I started chaotic sexual shit and their friend was being a dick about it when it’s normal for stuff to happen in the store. Though they was being really non caring about it until they realized who they was but when talking to them I realized how beautiful their personality was and asked if they wanted to join. So normally it’s ether friends of my partners or random people we meet.
Since it’s so much more than sex and even one of the milfs. She doesn’t even have sex or at least hasn’t yet. So making it seem like it’s only about sex is one degrading and two factually incorrect. Which there is no sexual or dating relationship interact between family members so there’s no incest going on.
Pains me that the closest analogue I have experience with is what to call my children besides their names, although thankfully the girls are aged far apart enough that the older one fell into “child” as her preferred nickname from me.
Not “pain” as in pity or disgust for either situation, just discomfort with the proximity of two decidedly distinct situations, although when it comes to whatever the Duggars came up with, I’m judging, and harshly.
Oh, and I think the effort and creativity you’ve put into this is cute as fuck. Never change.
That’s more than understandable I know for sure some people are better than me at names so for lots of ppl it doesn’t come up as much though thank you!
Hahahaaa sometimes when I get too horny 🤣😭 though normally nah. It’s just a closed poly where everyone’s with everyone. Also I see what you mean yeah. Though normally it’s only what I call them by but Lover would totally work! As Doll’s already taken by my Boss’s Mother 😅 (btw they have no relationship as they’re related lol but hot Milf.
All the names are honourifics or pet names I came up with. So I was wondering does anyone have any more common pet names I’ve missed or forgotten about that could come in handy.
Also why does it seem like on this app no one can understand a question or just can’t read. 😅🤣
I mean yeah that may work for some ppl but it’s just their opinions. Though I don’t understand the downvotes like do people hate relationships so much.
I was with you in the first paragraph, but you lost me at “adding siblings and parents of other partners.” Do you mean treating them like in-laws, or are the siblings and parents part of the relationship?
Hahahaa yeah I add the sibling and parents because why not as long as they’re an adult I can give them just as much love!!! Also I add people based on personality. so it’s hard not to add amazing people!
Not at all no one with blood relations has any emotional or sexual interacts like dating. Honestly it’s more or less a real funny thing for example my Daddy and his sister I call flower. They banter back and forth often about things related to me. Like I get really attach to people but some more than others which is very usual actually. As some people we added where pack deals so that’s their main attachment. Though for me my Daddy is staying at the top mainly but I got way deeply attached to his sister flower. The bantering back and forth is so adorable. She began calling him peasant boy and stuff.
I had to add I was also with his older brother but he ended that one lol. He hates his older brother but as long as didn’t harm his sister he didn’t exactly care. Since I made this aware, he knows how I treat people and love them. So he knows I will not harm her or break her heart. So within that reason he was more than fine with it for mainly that reason.
Yeah that’s understandable not everyone can be the same as me as everyone has different views though I don’t think people should get hate for being able to love like this. That’s why I like making awareness.
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