ashleyspencer,
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Autistic burnout + untreated ADHD =

impulse control issues + inability to force yourself to do anything + drained by no ability to function

Lots of walking pass a mess unable to make yourself clean it, then blame yourself for it.

Distracted, can't focus enough to do fun things and/or take care of yourself.

Forgetting everything. So burned out you can't remember important things + made worse by ADHD.

1/3

@actuallyautistic

btaroli,
@btaroli@federate.social avatar

@ashleyspencer And then you seek help from a therapist who tells you you’re perfectly functional or too old to need help. Or try breathing exercises. 🙄

ashleyspencer,
@ashleyspencer@autistics.life avatar

Constant feelings of self-shame because we can't seem to make ourselves clean, remember things, focus, etc. like it's somehow our fault, even though we can't control it, and we are so burned out we just don't have the energy for anything

Falling into bad habits that give us a little rush of dopamine because for a moment it makes us feel better

For a moment, we might feel a little better from the dopamine rush, and get hope that maybe we will get out of autistic burnout

2/3

@actuallyautistic

ashleyspencer,
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Not knowing how long burnout lasts + wondering how long will it be before we can get an ADHD assessment, so the psychiatrist can prescribe us ADHD meds.

Left to wait and struggle while waiting.

Untreated ADHD can make getting out of autistic burnout seem like it's something in the far out distant future, and left wondering, "When will I feel better?"

3/3

@actuallyautistic

EVDHmn,
@EVDHmn@ecoevo.social avatar

@ashleyspencer @actuallyautistic
I’ve been through burnout for a couple years and I’ve read everything done everything. Every hack or medicine.

What helped me:
Knowing I am audhd: Helped imposter, so did Dunning Kruger.
Which mean most under or over estimate ability.

Removing fear and shame and replacing them with learning from mistakes and practicality for fear. Resilience and self love for shame.

Also I accepted myself. Fully as I am. Forgave everyone including myself.

💜

pathfinder,
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@ashleyspencer @actuallyautistic
Unfortunately, feel the same way every day. All we can do is to try and keep on top of the basics and be patient. Some days are better than others and progress overall is sometimes seen, especially if I compare myself to the state I was in a year ago. It may not always feel enough, but slow progress is better than no progress.
:bear_hugs:

ashleyspencer,
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@pathfinder @actuallyautistic well said :RedHearts:

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