Kusimulkku,

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Pretending like you chose to live at home

lol

AgentGrimstone,

That’s the kind of story I imagine a Youtuber would have. Live with parents, start making 10k/mo, then buys own home.

GarlicToast,

Bahahaha, if I save all my income, for 3 years, I will not be able to buy a house. I may, may!, be able to collect enough for a down payment on a very shity apartment that will cost more over time as it’s already breaking down.

therealjcdenton,

Loneliness

DragonTypeWyvern,

Date a girl/guy who also lives with their parents

Fuck them in their childhood bedroom and make eye contact with their parents at breakfast

TastyWheat,

If the racecar bed’s rockin…

valid,
Turd_Ferg, (edited )
@Turd_Ferg@sh.itjust.works avatar

3 years and anon came up with enough to buy his own house in cash. Im thinking anon is a drug dealer or a very good prostitute.

Zibitee,

I actually have an engineering friend who did this and he did it in 2 years. Dude had no life, but he put a full down payment on a 750k house in two years. So I guess technical jobs just pay well enough

OldWoodFrame,

Well and the OP says he paid for the house in cash, vs just the down-payment, which could be as low as $37.5k for a $750k house. That’s a lot of money but across 2 years that’s $1600/mo, basically exactly what you’d expect to save on rent. Could also be significantly higher obviously too, if they went for 20% or something.

Turd_Ferg,
@Turd_Ferg@sh.itjust.works avatar

Thats a down payment, anon bought that shit straight cash. You figure the average down payment is 20% so… 150K+ for your friend, thats no chump change either. Does he stay out late at night, maybe looks frazzled all the time?

DragonTypeWyvern,

There are decent rural homes you can get for 200-300k within range of civilization in more places than you think

There’s also still 100k-200k properties in cities if you don’t mind anything left on your porch being stolen

Takumidesh,

An FHA loan is only 3 percent, about $25,000

Dorkyd68, (edited )

I had to leave at 18. My drunk ass dad and i were at each other’s throats constantly. Plus dating sucks when you live at home

Reddfugee42,

Multi-generational homes are as old as the human race. Everybody being expected to leave when you’re 18 is an incredibly new concept in the grand scheme of things.

SubArcticTundra,
@SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml avatar

What do you do if you want to have your SO over?

Belastend,

Fuck them in my own room?

OttoVonNoob,

North American individualism. The path we were promised was get education, get job, get apartment, meet so, merry so, buy house then have kids. The American dream is very 1D. Let alone paying taxes, “If they take one dollar off my wages, I’ll vote that bastard out!!” . We’re a very individually selfish people…

SubArcticTundra,
@SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml avatar

I don’t think it’s unique to the US, it’s very much the paradigm this side of the pond as well.

OttoVonNoob,

Yea I called it “North Americans” we Canadians are quite guilty as well:C. Ontario killed subsidized housing… I got a 5k down payment for my first home and they cut subsidized housing by 40% bitter pill…

Smoogs, (edited )

Coincides with how small living arrangements got so that more houses could be sold. Any relatively new concept should be cross checked with how capitalism has been fucking up what should have been a liveable society.

arin,

Capitalism concept to encourage home buyers and landlords renting to new adults.

cmdr_nova,
@cmdr_nova@lemmy.world avatar

Anons never had 20k of debt and inflation

cumskin_genocide,

Do you have a drug/gambling addiction? I don’t see how it’s possible to be 20k in debt.

RIP_Cheems,
@RIP_Cheems@lemmy.world avatar

College. COLLEGE.

AquaTofana,

It cost $20K to fix the plumbing in my house. Didn’t want to put it on a credit card, so instead took out a 0% loan. I’ll be done paying it off in November. That’s $20K in debt in one day.

TranscendentalEmpire,

Uhm, where you finding a 0% loan for 20k these days? Asking for a friend, thanks…

AquaTofana,

It was financing through the plumbing company, so I guess not a true loan in that sense 😬 Sorry for the confusion!! They just gave us 2 years to pay off the balance interest free.

force,

I had a seizure and got a 100K medical bill for less than a week of stay

cumskin_genocide,

Lmao Americans are fucked

bbuez,

never went to college

Try 150k in loans, I wish I could blow that much on slots

exocrinous,

Anon is cisgender.

Kusimulkku,

Bold guess, considering that’s like vast majority of people lol

bier,

Where do you live to be able to buy a house in cash after 3 years of working? Where I live the average appartment is about 400K euros and the average house is closer to 500K euros.

Maybe you can find something for 250K if you really buy something small that needs lots of work. But you still need over 80K a year excluding taxes, probably closer to 120K before taxes.

rickyrigatoni,

His country flag is right there. He is porch of geese.

Passerby6497,

He is porch of geese.

!boneappletea

DaBabyAteMaDingo,

Why did you get so many downvotes lol

JackFrostNCola,

Probably because boneappletea is meant to be unintended phrases not word play

Kit,

In the US I’ve never spent more than a year’s salary on a home. Certain areas of the country are far more affordable than others.

casual_turtle_stew_enjoyer,

I interpret this as you either make less than $60k and live in an absolute shit hole or you make more than $120k and have no right to speak about affordable areas of the country.

captainlezbian,

Oh it’s a shithole. Southeast Ohio has houses so cheap you wouldn’t believe it. But you have to live in southeast Ohio.

You could actually probably get a compound going there…

Kit,

$60k will get you a liveable house in certain parts of the country. Even in walkable, friendly, safe towns. The problem is that they’re not near jobs that pay more than $8/hr. I was lucky to get a fully remote job before Covid and bought a tiny 800 sqft cottage for a year’s salary. I just checked and see that homes of that size are still just as cheap in that town.

ChickenLadyLovesLife,

I live in a Philadelphia suburb (in one of the state’s top school districts) and just bought a modest two-bedroom house for $142K. While this represents almost six years of my current income as a school bus driver, I used to make $150K a year as a software developer so the house would have cost me less than one year’s salary. As it is, I was able to buy it outright from my savings. TBF the house is 80+ years old and was in need of some repairs, and the average house price in this district is over $500K, and Philly is not Toronto or Los Angeles - but the house-buying situation is not completely hopeless everywhere as long as you’re not expecting to live in a brand-new mcmansion.

absentbird,

If you don’t mind me asking, what made you switch from software development to transportation?

ChickenLadyLovesLife,

I got laid off from my job with a big silicon valley company and was just too sick of the whole industry to even try getting another coding job. I randomly bought a used school bus to convert into a motor home, and when I got to the point where I needed to get another job to avoid paying $1000 a month for shitty health insurance, it turned out owning and driving a school bus made me eminently qualified to be a school bus driver. I really love doing it - it of course doesn’t pay what programming pays, but I get the middle of my days off to go on long bike rides, and little kids aren’t that awful to be around.

peteypete420,

142 k for a house in a philly suburb? How recently may I ask?

ChickenLadyLovesLife,

Just last summer.

peteypete420,

A house not a condo? Was it a major fixer upper? Do you have a inside track with a realtor or someone?

Cause bucks and Mont Co aren’t the best district, but a good one and their prices are 2 to 3 times higher right now. According to a quick and lazy web search the Radnor district is the best in the philly area. Me and the SO have NOT been watching homes in that area, but I know Radnor is a nice area and can’t imagine the housing being a 3rd of the price as bucks/mont Co.

I am taking care not call you a liar, but that price seems very unusual (too low) for any area I can think you are talking about.

Taleya,

Sometimes you get lucky. Where i am the housing market is batshit insane. Managed to get a classic quarter acre block in a decent area under the average - and the house isn’t a classic postwar piece of shit

ChickenLadyLovesLife,

I am taking care not call you a liar

I appreciate that. :)

I did say “one of the best school districts” and it’s in the same ballpark as Radnor, at least (but not Radnor). It is a full-on house, a semi-detached with a sizable yard in a weird neighborhood of smallish houses that were built during WWII to house workers at the Navy Yard in Philly (the neighborhood is known as “Garden City” in Wallingford). These houses were never intended to last 80+ years but they’re still better-built than today’s pieces of shit. The house was not a complete gut-and-rebuild project but it wasn’t move-in ready, either (although the seller thought it was despite collapsing ceilings, a 25 yo water heater, and not a single door that closed properly - including the front door). It was a private sale brokered by a coworker of mine who knew the seller, but the price was in line with recent sales of other houses in this little neighborhood. In fact, given what I’ve spent so far on the renovations (and not counting my sweat equity at all, having done all the work myself) I think I overpaid a bit.

I’m careful to avoid being the kind of moron who says “I bought a cheap house so I think the housing market crisis is a complete fiction”, but I do think in general that having the willingness (and the skills) to fix up a less-than-perfect house can mitigate the problem somewhat. Just not in LA or Toronto.

peteypete420,

I gotcha. I still think you did very well. I can see that yea, no one factor shaved 150k off the price. Sagging (you called em collapsing) ceilings does want to make me assume you are already a contractor or super handyperson type.

More importantly, this thing you said,

in a weird neighborhood of smallish houses that were built during WWII to house workers at the Navy Yard in Philly (the neighborhood is known as “Garden City” in Wallingford).

Philly has a lotta neighborhoods and none of us know the names of all of em, but “Garden City” is not a Philly hood. If the people of Wallingford think otherwise, good on em.

Navy Yard is south philly. And as said I once I aint south philly. But, Jim’s finally opened back up so let us give praise to one of the few cheesesteak places I’d ever give a tourist directions too…

https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/13c7f200-37ea-419e-ba7f-df5f71f67bea.jpeg

ChickenLadyLovesLife, (edited )

I agree that the Navy Yard is south Philly and Wallingford ain’t Philly, I’m not claiming otherwise (nor do Wallingfordians ever make such a claim). I do not know why they decided to house people who worked in Philly in a place that is so far from Philly - that’s part of the story I’ve never found written anywhere. I can only surmise that since Wallingford is so close to Chester, the workers were able to ride a commuter train to and fro. Or maybe they ran special buses, I dunno.

Jim’s finally opened back up so let us give praise to one of the few cheesesteak places I’d ever give a tourist directions to

So, I actually used to live on South Street, right next to the Jim’s. When I got a steak from there, I always had to order it with marinara because it was too dry otherwise. How a sandwich with that much grease in it could possibly be dry is not something I can answer. I know this exposes me as non-native, but at least I wan’t ordering it with bell pepper.

Now, Ishkabibble’s is a place I can get behind.

NigelFrobisher,

They should have tried just skipping avocado toast.

Kusimulkku,

Considering it’s anon they probably did

Colour_me_triggered,

Kek

RedC,

You guys don’t pay rent when you lived with your parents? Was that just me??

SuddenDownpour,

I tried to, but she wouldn’t accept it.

NigelFrobisher,

I don’t have the best relationship with my parents, but it’s not that bad.

RedC,

My mom charged me from 18 because of how much she was getting before. My dad passed away in military service so my mom was getting checks from the VA for me and my sister until I turned 18. At 18 she lost that, and thus rent was due

vizzi,

That’s crazy…

billybong,

Can be more about how your parents are doing financially that how much they like you.

BlackPenguins,

I was able to live rent free with my parents until I was 25. I just took my paycheck every week and put it towards my loans while in college. By 27 I was debt free with a bachelor’s degree.

dependencyinjection,

I did from 18.

Blackmist,

I paid a little bit (like £100 a month), and pretty much saved the rest.

If I was spunking it all away on shit I didn’t need, I’m sure they’d have charged me a lot more.

S_204,

My options were paying for my tuition or paying rent. If I was paying tuition. I got to live for free at home. 6 months after I wasn’t paying tuition rent kicked in… I moved out instead of paying to live in my mom’s basement. I’m very very grateful for that arrangement, otherwise my student loans would have been significantly higher.

selokichtli,

I guess some parents need the money more than others. For sure, you are not the only one.

ThelittleDoe,
@ThelittleDoe@lemmy.blahaj.zone avatar

Pfft. Try paying almost $500 a month for a shitty room that was always yours until you turned 18, now suddenly it’s a “fee” to live here…

RedC,

For sure, that’s what I did, cept my rent was 750$

Taleya,

Hahah you got until 18?

Pietson,

I didn't pay rent especially since my parent own their home, but contributed to groceries.

Passerby6497,

“Paying rent” was me paying all the bills until I moved out one day and said “duces” after finding a shake and bake lab in the basement.

acetanilide,

When I was working, I was paying rent but it was much lower than if I had been on my own. Plus it was a flat rate so I didn’t have to add utilities or even car insurance.

Now that I’m not able to work I give them my food stamps. So I still contribute just not much unfortunately.

But yeah, I am thankful that my parents allow this arrangement.

Deconceptualist,

The price of living there is mental health hit points.

bionicjoey, (edited )

Depends on what your situation is. For me the thing that dealt mental hp damage was that my parents lived in suburb that is far from everything.

But like anon, it did give me a huge leg up on having money.

SubArcticTundra,
@SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml avatar

Omg, this is destroying me rn. 21, living with my parents in quite an isolated neigborhood. I wish my parents moved somewhere where I could still live for free while actually having a social circle whilst I worked on becoming independent.

Black_Gulaman,
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Not ours. My parents are our support system, even when we have a family of our own

Frog-Brawler,
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Fiction is real and liars lie. If we zoom in really closely on something we’ll get a picture; but not the full picture.

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