I was added to a 400 person queer women in Singapore group chat; a fair number of people on there were my exes; many more had dated or were dating my exes; 3 people offered to bring me sambal and spices when they visit San Francisco next; and I got an offer to help me publish a photo zine. The rest of them were younger people I never met.
All within the first 12 hours! (Of course, I was added by someone whose heart I unfortunately broke, during my fuckboi era)
When Sabrena and I got married in Auckland she asked one of our wedding witnesses how we knew each other. She was like ‘uh I used to date Adrianna’s ex’s current gf’ (I totally forgot / actually hadn’t made the connection) (it was the ex I got cookie with.. 15 years ago)
I mean stuff like this is just so common lol it’s more rare when someone isn’t connected in this way
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