Your instance also has like 1% of the functionality that YouTube does. No immediate user registration, no integration into third-party platforms, no TOS, no copyright enforcement, no auto-captioning, no playlist support, no support for "shorts"/"stories"-formatted content, no interactive functions like in-video cards, no rental/purchase options, no partnerships with studios and other rights holders, limited livestreaming options... etc. The list goes on.
Not saying any of this to try to dunk on TILVids or PeerTube in general, just saying that we're talking about two wildly different product types, which cater to two wildly different audiences. YouTube is providing an order of magnitude more features and functionality to their platform than what PeerTube is currently capable of. The business models that work for PeerTube aren't really comparable.The SOPs that work for your platform are nigh impossible to work for YouTube. It's like the difference between a local crokinole tourament compared to the NFL.