doesn’t that kinda absolve society from the fact that people have to experience things 100 times?
Well it sure as hell shouldnt. Its hard for people to get it through their heads that people can have such a different life experience while being part of the same superficial society, but exactly because of that everyone needs to integrate this level of critical thinking into their everyday lives, especially if we ever want to achieve the future you describe.
In the end it always comes down to distribution of wealth of all types as you say.