The government doesn’t have to solve all your problems for you. It’s still on us, but culturally rather than politically. Honestly, especially with American deadlocked politics, it’s probably easier to change people’s perceptions yourself than to beg the government to force people to do what you want.
For instance, if one person says “know what? He’s right. I’mma learn to cook. Fuck restaraunts” to what I’ve said, I’ve made more of a difference than “pleeeeeeeeease pelosi do something, save us!”