6 years ago my wife died. I chose to keep on going for our cats. I’ve since remarried, we have a daughter on the way, two dachshunds, we bought a house, and I reconnected with my mother after 15 years. Life is so fucking hard but sometimes we get lucky. Keep rolling the dice until you can’t no more.
Already married (more than a decade). Nice home (but renting). Disabled so can't work but that's OK, we make the best of it. We don't celebrate Christmas but I can imagine Winter Solstice or Matariki. Kids are almost asleep, so close enough. My spouse and I snuggle like this most nights. Holy shit, it's snowing?! It doesn't snow here so I'm simultaneously delighted for a once in a lifetime snowfall but also disturbed that it's snowing.... We homeschool, what day of the week is it again? The hardwork is indeed worth it.
Still 7/10 ain't bad 😅
Every day is 'making it' though and will be for the rest of our lives since life is ever changing and ever evolving. Find hygge and gratitude every day and you'll realise that you don't need to achieve some fake "made it" state because you already have 💜
In ten years we’ll have missed the boat to have kids and we still probably won’t be able to afford a home in the city we live in. At least it won’t be long till the Water Wars starts and ends this miserable timeline.
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