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ChloeCat, to random

A reminder for new people:
There is no algorithm. Don't feel bad for boosting your own posts! Especially at different times of day when different people are online.

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akioogaki,
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Working to redevelop this mindset. It really takes me back to my earliest days on social media.

18+ ChloeCat, to random

Sometimes I wonder why I still call myself a christian...
I barely go to church, and when I do i end up falling asleep half the time
I don't volunteer with the youth group anymore
the only thing I do is I play music with the worship band (which I only do because I happen to like playing music)

I don't think I could ever abandon my religion, but it certainly is drifting away from me.

I wonder if @akioogaki has any advice? maybe i'm just going to the wrong church, but i could never come out as trans there. I don't think anyone would accept me (so much for "love your neighbor...")

  • posted by Chloe
18+ akioogaki,
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@ChloeCat This is a struggle I understand well. I spent a decade away from church and very inactive outside of occasional prayers due to LGBTQ+ hatred by churches and Christians in general.

Are you happy at the church you're at, or just going through the motions? If the latter is the case, your church family there may unfortunately not be your permanent home. It sucks to realize this. The last church before my hiatus, I have one person I still talk with, an older gentleman whose granddaughter is also trans.

Finding a genuinely welcoming church is hard, but reaching out to any transfeminine Christian in your area can be a great start. That's how I found my current church family.

I'll lastly note that very few churches truly follow the commandments, let along the teachings of Jesus. If they did, they'd remember that Jesus welcomed all of us.

I wish you the best in this journey, and invite you to request my Discord if you need further support.

LianSirenia, to random
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Gunna collect more quotes to immortalize on my bio for being on here my first month. Hit me chat, what vibes did I manage?

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia
"Who knew a solid 10 could also be your best friend and fedi's best comedian?"

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia You can, because it's been independently fact-checked.

akioogaki, to random
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Why must my favorite gals all have the perfect voices? I'm still over here unable to figure out voice training with this horrific dude voice...

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia Not at all

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia You stop that.

LianSirenia, to random
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@akioogaki is accusing me of having a cute voice, tell her she's wrong chat ;~;

akioogaki,
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@allthestars @LianSirenia Am expert, her voice is absolutely jealousy-inducing in perfection.

akioogaki,
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LianSirenia, to random
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It's confirmed, I shared selfies in dms and I am totes uncute

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia Yes she does, they're amazing!

LianSirenia, to random
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I accept payment in either cash, card, or hugs

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia Are headpats and good girl comments an applicable currency?

akioogaki, to random
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Shoutout to Transfem.Social for being a truly trans-formative social media experience! ​:Blobhaj_Heart_Trans:​ ​:Blobhaj_Heart_Trans:​ ​:Blobhaj_Heart_Trans:​

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia Good~

akioogaki, to random
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Realizing this is gonna happen to me one day...

RE: https://transfem.social/notes/9rtzcja2wh600k5s

akioogaki,
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@nobody I'll figure out sooner than later, seeing as my house has four cats. (How it's taken more than a year is beyond me...)

akioogaki, to random
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I wonder what it takes to get the active user badge on here...

Guess I need to spam more to get it!

akioogaki,
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@LianSirenia Got it, fill everyone's timelines with the worst notes ever! ​:astolfo_smug2:​

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