Like others have said a lot of what you're feeling may be internalized biphobia. Went through the same thing too personally. But here's something I realized that I keep in mind that helped put things into perspective: as a bi person your dating pool will always skew towards a "straight" passing one because they're are simply more straight and bi people of the opposite gender or other genders than bi and gay folks of your gender. That's just how the math works out. So statistically the average bi experience is a "straight" relationship from a shallow outsider perspective, but that doesn't change you, your partner, or yalls sexuality at all.
Being Bi is also not defined by enjoying your whole range of attraction simultaneously. There's a lot of things we all would like to do but realize realistically we just won't be able to, and that's okay. I love space but I know I'll never be an astronaut and go there, yet that doesn't make my desire to see the stars any less real and valid.
A couple of years ago I discovered my wife of 25 years was having an affair. I kicked her out and told her to go be with him (maybe that's another AITA question). She asked what I would tell the kids, who at the time were 20 and 17 years old. I said I was going to tell them the truth. She pleaded, "please don't tell the kids." I...
NTA. Both are young adults and would have figured it out anyways when they see mom is now living with a brand new guy all of a sudden. She did this all to herself and just wants you to share the raging guilt.
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I feel like I missed the boat to be bi
This is a bit of a vent because I don't feel comfortable talking about this in literally any other virtual or physical space. I hope that's ok....
AITA for telling my kids about my wife's cheating?
A couple of years ago I discovered my wife of 25 years was having an affair. I kicked her out and told her to go be with him (maybe that's another AITA question). She asked what I would tell the kids, who at the time were 20 and 17 years old. I said I was going to tell them the truth. She pleaded, "please don't tell the kids." I...
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