Kantiberl
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Kantiberl

@Kantiberl@kbin.social

Just a feller

Squabblr now officially a "free speech" cesspool, admins removed or forced out by owner (squabblr.co)

So I mean, most of us knew this beforehand and being on the fediverse we probably do not really care, but what was always on the horizon has no happened, the owner of Squabblr finally had enough having to be a decent person and has decided that his site is now “free speech purism”, so he gets to continue to insult LGBTQ...

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It's starting to worry me that "free speech" has become something to be feared and avoided. Avoiding confrontation to your beliefs just makes you and your beliefs weaker.

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Exactly, and that's why this topic is important to me. I don't wanna be silenced for wrongthink.

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The biggest problem with this "us vs. them" mentality everyone seems so eager to jump towards, is that since both sides must always be opposed, you're now on the side that is against free speech. That's going to do nothing but strengthen their side and weaken yours. Open your heart to other humans, especially the ones you don't like. Try to understand them and realize you can hold your beliefs without silencing theirs. How will anyone change if nobody talks to each other? Words are what make us human, they have the power to change everything. It's how we've survived as long as we have. One "hello" from a fellow human can save a suicidal persons life. The only way you can change the world is if you speak your heart and listen to others.

I know there is a lot of hate and nonsense out there but you're grouping it all together under one image and painting everyone who doesn't think like you as the enemy. It's not helpful. Yes, they do it too, but that's not an excuse. Be better.

Kantiberl,
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There’s 8 billion of us now, we can afford to lose the trash.

Sounds like you and nazis have more in common than you think.

Kantiberl,
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You may want to look up the psychological concept of projection.

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And how do you expect to change anyone's mind if you don't talk to each other? How are you supposed to empathize, be empathized with, challenge views, and have your views challenged? Nothing changes and society is weakened by burying your head in the sand.

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Oh so everyone who wants free speech just wants to shout slurs? You were saying something about black and white thinking...

Way to incite anger and hatred for no reason. If someone wants to do that then they suck and you should tell them. You might gain a better understanding of yourself and the world if you challenge peoples beliefs instead of creating imaginary strawmen to get angry at.

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What if you used the sun as the source of the laser?

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Calling AI a fad is like calling electricity a fad.

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AI is literally going to change everything. It's already started, don't you feel it?

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Lol

You're irrelevant, I'm irrelevant, we're going to die and most of us will die in obscurity

What makes you think you matter? You don’t. Sure you have a small group of people that like you, but I don’t like you because I don’t know you. The person walking down the street doesn’t care about you. You talk tough and that’s it. You’re irrelevant to the grand scheme. When the earth begins to burn you’re going...

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Everything you do has a significant impact. When you take care of yourself, love yourself, and proactively change what's in your control, you inspire those around you. Your actions shape their behavior and perspective. But if you let your hardships get the best of you and you start to harbor resentment towards the world, it negatively affects EVERYTHING in the world. This negative mindset spreads, bringing down not just you, but those around too. Hell, it affects the animals and plants that you come across. Just the pheromones you emit and the way you walk changes peoples paths and their thoughts. Your actions matter. They have consequences. I'm typing this response quickly to balance out your negative post, and it's making me late for work. It's time to get your act together. Only you can change your situation. Try to become proficient at something and make a positive contribution to society. Good luck, everything you need to improve is already within you. Just follow your heart, and don't overthink. Love yourself and you'll love the world too.

Kantiberl,
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Thank you for the suggestion but it did not work. I have been cursed by the Fediverse to see RULE in every way imaginable.

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The takeaway from this is how easily people are duped by trolls.

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Conservative salt and liberal tears. I wish people would stop getting off on the agony of others.

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Thank you for speaking your truth. We need more of this and less careless disregard for the beliefs of others. Understanding is the only way to grow as a species. Calling a life a clump of cells may be true in some senses but not in all. If you think we're all just clumps of cells that's fine, but that's not what the pro lifers see. Disregarding that fact only weakens your position and strengthens your "opposition's".

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If you think you can force your subjective will on billions of people by plugging your ears and shouting "I'm right" you're going to be very disappointed by life.

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There is truth in all perspectives and denying that helps no one, including yourself.

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That's a pretty dangerous game to play. It just strengthens their resolve and blinds you from the genuine understanding of your fellow humans. I think your stance harms society.

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My argument is that denying the reality of other's perspectives just makes you more dumb and less open to the world around you, thereby harming society and only convincing those that already agree with you. Thereby helping no one and creating more anger and animosity. That's my argument. I am pro choice, but the answers aren't as simple as people want to make them.

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That may be the most tautological sentence I've ever read.

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It was always a crime to secretly force a stillbirth at 28 weeks and then bury the body without telling anyone. 28 weeks is almost 7 months (edit: math is hard). She had plenty of time to do it legally.

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Then the doctors would have advised her on what to do. I doubt "take black market pills to force a stillbirth and then hide the body" were the doctors orders.

OC Unlike previous attempts at trying reddit alternatives (like Voat), kbin and much of the lemmyverse doesn’t seem to be plagued with extreme far right buffoonery.

It’s one thing to have differing views, but I’ve seen enough attempted reddit migrations to be relieved that the popular communities in the fediverse so far haven’t been about crazy racist stuff or other extreme right bullshit....

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