I just wonder if it actually did get worse or it just seems like that because as an adult you have a lot more on your plate than you did when you were a kid/teen
Adderall isn’t an approved medication outside of the United States though, and it’s the only drug that works for me. Plus… I’m already having a hard enough time. You need tens of thousands saved up to even afford a move, and then go through the immigration process? All that paperwork? Obviously there are better safety nets outside of the United States but most people privileged enough to afford to leave would also be in less need of a safety net.
Sounds like you have to be sponsored by a company to make the move though via a business visa? That still basically only happens to people in high paying jobs.
You’re in a high paying career and knew someone in the country, that made things way easier for you, and indiscriminately giving the advice that people should emigrate makes you sound like a privileged tool.
What am I supposed to suck your dick for giving out terrible advice that only a small proportion of the population can follow through on? I’m literally just telling you how you actually come across. Hear it or don’t.
It felt like it was uncool to have even a touch of racism when Obama got elected and through his presidency. But since the MAGA movement, I feel like subtle and out-right racism has increased. Like a gateway was opened....
I feel like a natural prairie or forest with a ton of diversity would capture way more carbon than whatever monoculture you put down for fuel. This doesn’t make any sense.
What is his apartment/home like? Idk, it is a bit odd but if you have met up at other times it’s not a red flag on its own, to me. Do you guys have tangible plans to close the distance?
Okay, not wanting to host your boyfriend at your parent’s place is actually understandable. Why is he moving with his friend? Is he unable to afford a long distance move?
He is younger than you, and at his stage of life moving might be difficult. To me, you are coming across as needy in a situation where it sounds like he’s just getting his start in life. You also failed to mention some key details in the post which made things seem more suspicious than they are. It feels to me like you are searching for red flags.
If the relationship otherwise feels really good I don’t see this as a reason to break up, unless you really don’t want to do long distance which is understandable for anyone. But you might be better off with someone closer to your stage in life, who would be able to host you and do life planning. Based on this post alone, you don’t seem happy with the situation.
He’s planning his own life, and you want to be a part of that. I think you guys just aren’t in the same place. Some people would be okay with having a long distance partner who is going to move wherever… probably mostly people in open relationships. He isn’t wrong for wanting to do what he wants, you aren’t wrong for wanting a partner nearby.
Like I said, antisemitism has been happening regardless of the protests and to tie them together is irresponsible reporting. It’s very easy to condemn antisemitism at the same time as saying that the protests are not antisemitic.
Your politics are relevant because if you think that Republicans/Democrats both have enticing policies, your values are so so far from mine that we don’t have the same political goals. So I won’t be engaging in conversation with you as if we did.
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Anyone else feel like their ADHD was always there but got progressively worse as an adult?
I just wonder if it actually did get worse or it just seems like that because as an adult you have a lot more on your plate than you did when you were a kid/teen
Did Obama Becoming President Make People Hide Their Racism?
It felt like it was uncool to have even a touch of racism when Obama got elected and through his presidency. But since the MAGA movement, I feel like subtle and out-right racism has increased. Like a gateway was opened....
‘Magical thinking’: hopes for sustainable jet fuel not realistic, report finds (www.theguardian.com)
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Don't worry, I'm sure you'll be privileged and safe (lemmy.world)
Lemmy is a worse platform for women than Reddit was
(Content warning, discussions of SA and misogyny, mods I might mention politics a bit but I hope this can be taken outside the context of politics and understood as a discussion of basic human decency)...
May 13, 1985: Anniversary of the MOVE Bombing in Philadelphia (www.blackpast.org)