RL_Dane,
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New post: "The Toxicity Dance"
https://rldane.space/the-toxicity-dance.html

This one may trigger some, but I tried to make it very impartial.

Shout out to the excellent @joel for tone-checking it for me before I published it.

cc: the rest of my : @amin @dm @ivan @libreivan @sotolf @thedoctor @theDoctor

OpenComputeDesign,
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@RL_Dane I think this is a problem every "community" has, as I hear the same thing about every interest I have. I tend to avoid considering interests as "communities" because of it

I'm just a weirdo who likes to listen to the music I like to listen to, I fiddle with computer stuff that intrigues me, watch children's media, etc. I'll probably blabber on about it, and anyone who likes can sure listen. If I offend I'll probably apologize profusely if I know you get reflexively defensive if I don't

OpenComputeDesign,
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@RL_Dane ...Is my thought process this time. If I read it again and feel like replying, I'll probably have a different line of reasoning every time. I've got the consistency of of a true RNG :P

It's a serious flaw I have that genuinely leads me to just debating myself and the things I've said moments earlier on and on ad-nausium.
But I digress, and this was absolutely not the time and place to have an existential crisis...

RL_Dane,
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@OpenComputeDesign

You never know. The has been very kind to every existential crisis I've shared with it so far. XD

RL_Dane,
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@OpenComputeDesign

Even @sotolf is a total gem when you're open about your struggles. All the Norwegian meme warrior armor comes flying off and he's a total bro. ;)

RL_Dane,
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@OpenComputeDesign

It's a very human problem, but some communities are worse than others, although I think that has a lot to do with the values and practices of the gatekeepers* of the community.

*using "gatekeeper" in a generic sense, not necessarily referring to "gatekeeping" in the negative sense.

OpenComputeDesign,
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@RL_Dane I have had people yell at me trying to convince me of the very opinion I shared, simply because I implied it was possible they might be offended by my sharing of my opinion :P

RL_Dane,
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@OpenComputeDesign

Yeesh. Well, I think you've found some good, decent peeps around these parts now!

OpenComputeDesign,
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@RL_Dane The majority of people I meet here are quite decent. Even many of the people I get into arguments are decent except when we both happen to collide at just the wrong mood it seems

RL_Dane,
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@OpenComputeDesign

Yeah, I don't get into too many arguments, but when I do, it's almost always,
"[Jabba the Hutt laugh] This nerd is my kind of scum."

joel,
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@RL_Dane @amin @dm @ivan @libreivan @sotolf @thedoctor @theDoctor oh no now I'll be blamed for the toxicity of this post

RL_Dane,
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@joel @amin @dm @ivan @libreivan @sotolf @thedoctor @theDoctor

That was my plan all along!!!!

MUHAHAHAHAHHA!!!! #EVIL

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