I had a similar trajectory of trying out different “labels”
I went from questioning, to non binary, to some sort of femme non binary, femboy, demi, trans woman.
Sometimes we need to inch closer and closer until we realize we finally know who we are.
Plus I find it generally gives us a little more empathy for all types of identities. Even if they weren’t the “right fit” for us, doesn’t mean we can’t empathize and celebrate those folk who find themselves elsewhere on the spectrum :)