Openmindedskeptic

@Openmindedskeptic@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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Openmindedskeptic,

I mean, everything else matches; it’s exactly where the worst of the fires happened (Lahaina), and nothing else anywhere near there looks like this. It’s probably a structure that was added after the one at the top. Temporary floating dock or something.

Commenting this just bc it sounds like you’re casting suspicion on the photos, but I’m pretty sure they’re the same place.

Pet Renaissance: Blinded by the Light (i.imgur.com)

Closeup photo of two light-grey long-haired house cats who are standing directly underneath a swing-arm desk lamp. They have long, luxurious whiskers and luxuriant “ruffs” of fur on their upper chests. They are both facing the camera, one behind the other, but they are looking directly up into the light bulb. The cat in...

Openmindedskeptic,

Did we time travel? Are we now in Victorian England where an out-of-wedlock grandchild is some kind of scandal?? LOL

Openmindedskeptic,

Much like I ignored reddit usernames in the comment section, I tend to ignore which instance a post is coming from while scrolling. So I subscribe to all the relevant ones, and just scroll from my “subscribed” in my instance.

Openmindedskeptic,

I’ve been reading way too many historical novels, because I read “called on” and thought, oh that’s nice of them to visit them after what they went through. 🤦

Openmindedskeptic,

A “paradoxymoron” if you will, emphasis on the moron.

Openmindedskeptic, (edited )

First off, I’m glad to know you’re reconsidering your previous actions. While it’s a good thing to regret and genuinely feel remorse for things you in hindsight maybe should not have done, beating yourself up over it won’t really help you, and all you can ever do is change your present and future, not the past.

Now: as for my opinions on that sort of thing, I have a few. LOL

On a smaller scale/short term, fake stories are mostly an annoyance depending on where they’re being promoted as real; in some cases as in subreddits/places that are attempting to help people with serious problems, it can be more problematic. There was a sub called justnomil about in-laws who were causing problems in people’s marriages. There were some creative writers who seemed to be going through some awful abuse, and were describing ‘found memories’ of previous sexual abuse in somewhat graphic detail. The problem with that is there were people in that sub with actual traumatic SA in their past who read those things and felt deeply for the OP, who were devastated and to a degree re-traumatized by the fact that they had invested their emotions and energy into something that wasn’t true.

On the larger scale, though, fake stories can be of a societal problem in a subtle but real way.

People form their world views from everything around them, including stuff they read online, even if they aren’t trying to let that stuff influence them. So if they’re reading a ton of (fake) stories presented as real where, say, someone’s girlfriend/wife is cheating on them, or cops egregiously abusing their power, or men beating up their SO’s, or trans people littering, they may not on the surface believe all of them are true, and may doubt many of them, but sort of the whole glob (lol IDK what to call it) of those type of stories will subconsciously form part of their opinion about cops, men, women, trans people, or who or whatever.

People like to think that they’re above that but our brains are tricky things and process stuff below the surface that we don’t realize.

So that’s why I get soooo frustrated with fakers online. It seems like just a minor thing, but even known fictional stories can shape society, so fake stories that people actually think may have happened, or could have happened, are IMO at least that powerful.

I suspect it’s that in some way people who write those understand the power/influence they have and it fills a void in them, but the problem is the way they are filling that void or need to feel important (which is a natural need that all of us have) is unhelpful or potentially harmful to others.

Anyway, cheers. Thanks for the question.

Openmindedskeptic,

What if OP wasn’t a Reddit story faker?

LOL I had that thought too. Like…

Openmindedskeptic,

A lot of groups coordinate on discord; they’ll have a template & an area they want to target. Some of the larger groups may have thousands of people. It depends on the group, but in one I’ve seen, they organize people by birthdate for some of the designs, and by color for the larger part of the design, and let people go.

There’s a way you can get an overlay of the intended design on the r/place canvas, supposedly, but it didn’t work for me. But like they’ll have templates or whatever.

One of the largest groups is “the void” and normally it just tries to black out the canvas. This year it looks like they’re helping out the fuckspez black and white design mostly.

Openmindedskeptic,

I don’t really; I’m just hedging my bets. I have noticed that kbin doesn’t seem to go “down” as often as my Lemmy instance; on the other hand, there are still some bugs going on with kbin and I don’t like that you can’t yet collapse comments in threads. (unless I’ve missed something.)

I think Kbin has a lot of potential. I also think changing the name to something more catchy would help it grow more although IDK.

Openmindedskeptic,

Userstyles?

I mean, share?

Openmindedskeptic,

Ooh thanks!

Openmindedskeptic,

That’s because people got their words all mixed up. Back in the day, “is not it” would absolutely be the normal way to phrase “isn’t it.”

It sounds weird today of course.

Disquietude of Maidens (i.imgur.com)

A group of four female athletes are in various states of repose after completing a relay event at the Olympics. Three are looking toward the upper right at something offscreen; the woman on the left has anxious tears in her eyes. The fourth young woman is facing the woman on the left who is crying and comforting her. All are...

Openmindedskeptic,

It’s alternate text for people with visual impairments/screen readers.

I wrote it.

Openmindedskeptic,

Re: the rules on the side: “Alt-Text for vision-impaired users in the post body or in the comments is highly encouraged. Just pretend you are describing a photo to someone on the phone.”

Some instances have “alternate text” boxes that don’t show up for everyone but allow screen readers to read it, but if not, just put it in the body. Or as a comment.

mlmym.org is a front end for Lemmy that looks just like old reddit. It provides a familiar experience (mlmym.org)

Like many of you I’m here because I’m done with reddit. I’m just getting started here and I found a front end for Lemmy that provides the old reddit interface. I like the lemmy.world interface just fine, but old habits are hard to break. I think using Lemmy with this front end will help me spend more time here because of...

Openmindedskeptic,

I know you’ve already done a ton of hard work on this, but are there any plans to try to integrate kbin?

Like, I can view my kbin communities anyway, but I can’t moderate one from mlmym/lemmy.blahaj, for example.

If not, no biggie. Really like the interface for now.

Openmindedskeptic,

Well I’m an idiot lol!

Anyhow, thx for passing my question on haha!

Openmindedskeptic,

It’s a good idea actually and I could see maybe having some different mods and/or handing over one to someone else at some point.

Openmindedskeptic,

It’s still lacking the collapse a comment ability! I am like when are they going to fix that?

But it’s a much much newer instance. We’ll see, but I think it has potential.

Openmindedskeptic,

Yeah that’s a good option that I WISH Reddit had… had. But only for the creator maybe?

By the way I’m commenting this on the mlmym thing you made!

Openmindedskeptic,

To add to that, there was a bit of a time limit in which we had reason to believe we needed to secure the name so that it wouldn’t be taken by certain persons and then just sat upon with no activity.

Openmindedskeptic,

They aren’t connected except that the same mods run them. We don’t, or haven’t so far, posted duplicate posts. So that shouldn’t be an issue.

And then we’re also paying attention and when it seems appropriate, we will likely close down one and redirect traffic to the one we keep up.

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