I’m a gay guy so I’ll answer this from that perspective: moreso men? I’m attracted to guys along with the occasional non-binary person or very butch lesbian (i.e. my attraction to them felt identical to how I’m attracted to men). Sometimes I’m attracted to a masc guy, sometimes it’s a fem guy. Sometimes it’s neither. I’ve been into every body type except bears (though including cubs).
Basically: if my social perception of you is that of a man despite your own gender identity, then I might be attracted to you. I apologize if my horniness assumes your gender
I’ve got a nonbinary friend who presents somewhat feminine, and they always say that anyone who finds them attractive is gay by default. So I guess what I’m saying is I’m not totally straight
They’re using the (Greek-derived) scientific definition of “hetero” (i.e. different) vs “homo” (i.e. same). By those definitions, any cisgender + non-binary pairing would technically be heterosexual.
Yeah I define myself as heterosexual cos I’m not attracted to people of the same gender as me. I’m not non-binary so being attracted to/sleeping with an enby person is not gay, at least according to how I define my own sexuality.
My ex really loved that song and thought it was so deep. She’d say shit like “I just love how he doesn’t have a type you know? Like if your bad it doesn’t matter” but I was just confused because a bad bitch is a type. And it wasn’t her.
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