@RL_Dane I think this is a problem every "community" has, as I hear the same thing about every interest I have. I tend to avoid considering interests as "communities" because of it
I'm just a weirdo who likes to listen to the music I like to listen to, I fiddle with computer stuff that intrigues me, watch children's media, etc. I'll probably blabber on about it, and anyone who likes can sure listen. If I offend I'll probably apologize profusely if I know you get reflexively defensive if I don't