@ben NTA for sure. This one hits quite hard for me, as we unexpectedly adopted another cat earlier this year. I don't know exactly what about his previous family caused him to move out and live under a neighbours tree in preference to staying in his old home, but he quite clearly has some trust issues that he's slowly starting to get over. If his old owners (who basically abandoned him) wanted back in his life I would also not consider it to be in his best interests.
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