@Cetraria@actuallyautistic yeah, I wasn’t sure what the response would be exactly. I was misdiagnosed for many years with bipolar, which we assumed was likely on my father’s side. She was fine when I used to talk about that, I think because she didn’t feel like she was to blame. I guess Autism is harder for her to accept because of her assumptions.
Definitely do what makes sense for you. I thought that I might avoid some drama by telling her.