Sounds like an abusive relationship. Constantly demanding things is a huge red flag. She even still you from doing basic things like dishes for her own needs, super red flag. Maybe talk to her about it, if she does not reconsider her behavior you should leave here while your can. The abusive behavior will only get worse. One day you will wake up and she will be right in your face.
My friend has a bag gremlin cat, she's very cute and demands access to my bag whenever I visit. If I don't get my stuff out quickly enough she makes her displeasure known by way of a merciless attack on the bag until I inevitably relent and let her get in it.
NAH Human has to do housework. Roxie has no concept of housework. Roxie just want uppies.
The real asshole here are the laws of physics, what do you mean OP can't be in two places at once?
Boundaries. I'd say make chore time fun for her and get one of those wall treat chews and uncap it while you work. Or have a recycleable plastic bottle, cut a small hole in it, and tape the sides so it's not rough and put five treats in so when she bats it and plays, some come out and she can eat them. Associate the fact that sometimes you doing something for yourself is also good for her.
That might even be something she can do in the room with you so she gets quality time and fun and you get to do what you need.
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