NTA. The person holding the steering wheel controls the car. If you don’t know the way, you should ask. It’s not everyone else’s job to get you to your destination.
NTA. She was driving. The driver is in control of the vehicle, any decisions made (suggested or not) they are responsible for. Stopping in the middle of a highway is incredibly dangerous and you are right to be grateful you are still alive.
Looks like the OP was also going through and systematically downvoting every post and comment the mod made. This is looking like it might be an ESH situation.
Something similar happened to me a couple weeks ago. I downvoted someone, then they got mad and downvoted most of my entire history. Simultaneously pathetic and troubling.
On a related note, how does one report a user rather than a specific post? I did send a message to the devs, but I’m not sure if that’s the right way to report someone.
However, IMO it’s pointless to complain about being able to see downvotes because them being available to all users is an inevitable consequence of how federation works. Sure, you can obfuscate them by choosing not to expose them in the UI, but if anybody with even a little motivation can see them anyway then what’s the point?
Am I the Asshole?
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