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kadu, in When did you realize that you were kinky?
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There's something to be said about 90's and 2000's kids growing up surrounded by cartoon characters that are borderline kinky.

Shaped me a lot, that's for sure.

ViridianNott,
kadu,
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The Hex girls...

ViridianNott, in Resources for reading about healthy experimentation in the bedroom?

I read a lot of journal articles, and I think that this thesis from my alma mater seems like a good place to start. I am a biologist with no experience in sociology though, so take my recommendation with a grain of salt.

eatmoregreenfood,
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Yooooo what up fellow person who went to college in Florida. Also, thanks for the link! Definitely something I'll look at

cristalcommons, in A great compilation of non-fiction BDSM books for those who want to learn about kink! I particularly recommend "The New Topping Book" and/or "The New Bottoming Book" for new users.

thank you for sharing~~

cristalcommons, in Are there any good resources for people looking to get into bdsm?

also, FetLife is a nice community. it’s not a dating site, but a social media for kink. there are groups, events, post threads, you can share art, pics, writings, etc. they have a biiiig dictionary for all the terms i don’t know haha and users make lots of guides about ethics, consent, and i have read good debates too.

TwilightGirl1992, in Looking to introduce yourself or meet others? Use this thread! [July 2023]

Hi. I’m Luna. I’m a submissive and a little. I have a Sir, so please respect that. I’m still exploring but impact is my favorite. I look forward to meeting you all!

TwilightGirl1992, in What are your favorite BDSM-related podcasts, blogs, or YouTube channels?

Loving BDSM, Pink Kink. Those are my go-tos.

Luovahulluus, in When did you realize that you were kinky?

I had degradation and humiliation fantasies with my stuffies when I was like seven.

When Jabba had Leia chained and under his control, that was hot! I think that’s the earliest kinky memory I have that I understood was sexual at the time it happened.

BoneheadedTwizzle, in Looking to introduce yourself or meet others? Use this thread! [July 2023]

Hello! I will introduce myself. Please call me Jane. It’s my alter-ego. I am a full time submissive in my early 40’s. I am devoted to my Master who collared me a few years ago. We are open and poly. We have few hard limits. Anal is reserved for my Master only. I enjoy watching him with other women. I’m willing to answer most questions. I’m excited to see this community grow.

ViridianNott, in The Spanking/Spanko Thread

I really appreciate spanking a sadist - it’s approachable and easy to wrap your head around, so even people who don’t consider themselves masochists are usually down.

Turkey_Titty_city, in 50 Shades of BS - How to tell the Difference Between Kink and Abuse

kink is consensual. abuse is not.

someone violating your boundaries is abuse.

Turkey_Titty_city, in When did you realize that you were kinky?

when she licked my ass

WytchStar, in This is a total gimmick, but I'd be lying if I said bdsmtest.org wasn't one of my first exposures to the world of kink. Post your results below!
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Sadist
100% Dominant
99% Non-monogamist
97% Exhibitionist
96% Voyeur
94% Rigger
94% Master/Mistress
60% Brat tamer
60% Experimentalist
56% Owner
50% Primal (Hunter)
49% Vanilla
35% Degrader
13% Daddy/Mommy
7% Switch
0% Ageplayer

Way too low on the Daddy scale and too high on the Brat Tamer but otherwise fairly accurate.

ViridianNott, in This is a total gimmick, but I'd be lying if I said bdsmtest.org wasn't one of my first exposures to the world of kink. Post your results below!

Here are my results!

100% Switch
100% Degradee
100% Rope bunny
100% Rigger
97% Degrader
97% Non-monogamist
96% Submissive
92% Voyeur
92% Experimentalist
91% Masochist
87% Brat tamer
87% Sadist
86% Slave
86% Dominant
85% Pet
77% Brat
74% Exhibitionist
73% Owner
70% Master/Mistress
34% Primal (Prey)
32% Vanilla
20% Primal (Hunter)
13% Daddy/Mommy
0% Boy/Girl
0% Ageplayer

bunegesserit, in What are your favorite BDSM-related podcasts, blogs, or YouTube channels?
TwoPakRat, in Are there any good resources for people looking to get into bdsm?

The loving dominant was a good read. Depending on your interest s there is a ton out there.

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