I can't say I can pin down an exact time, but by the time I had learned about BDSM on the internet I was sure I would like it. The first thing I remember was REALLY liking the scene in Aladdin where Jasmine was chained up by Jafar
Scarleteen is a sex education website that I used for a few years before I turned 18, but it's full of wisdom that can is equally valuable for adults as well. This is a quick read but an important one for anybody looking to get into kink
Might as well introduce myself as our only moderator! I am a 20s male kink-enthusiast based in the western USA where I work as a biologist in academics. I’ve never participated much in the IRL BDSM community, but I’ve been active within the community online since the day I turned 18.
I consider myself a switch and am mainly interested in tease and denial, although I also love bondage, CNC, degradation, and petplay. Other than that, I am in a four year relationship with my lovely girlfriend (also a switch) who is simultaneously the biggest brat and toughest dom I have ever met. I try to be fairly open about my sexuality and have even introduced a few friends to kink… I hope this sub can be a resource, gateway, or lifeline for people like the online BDSM community has always been for me.
Looking to introduce yourself or meet others? Use this thread! [July 2023]
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When did you realize that you were kinky?
I can't say I can pin down an exact time, but by the time I had learned about BDSM on the internet I was sure I would like it. The first thing I remember was REALLY liking the scene in Aladdin where Jasmine was chained up by Jafar
50 Shades of BS - How to tell the Difference Between Kink and Abuse (www.scarleteen.com)
Scarleteen is a sex education website that I used for a few years before I turned 18, but it's full of wisdom that can is equally valuable for adults as well. This is a quick read but an important one for anybody looking to get into kink
18+ Looking to introduce yourself or meet others to play with? Use this thread! (June 2023)