Now that is an explosively misandrist and hateful take. These men that you deem misogynistic bastards are friends with an out trans woman. The more likely explanation for their reaction is that of sympathy -- they fear gender dysphoria as much as their trans friend does. If a trans woman was offered a shot of testosterone, they would also be repulsed by it. How is that any different?
I'm sorry you've been hurt in the past by men, but you're projecting your own traumatic experiences at innocent people. Try to aim it where it's deserved.