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Gonna feel silly when they find out all the other letters represent BDSM too. Every community has a sub-set of people interested in BDSM. Cishet ppl too. :/

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There are always shifts in what is villainized in films based on current real-world concerns. I think overall people are just more aware of the nuance that things aren't as black and white as 'good guys vs bad guys'. Which I think leads to more interesting characters and stories. That being said, there's still plenty of violence and baddies (some the article mentions like Rogue AI.) They mention specific 'bad guys' of the past where they're demonizing a specific nationality... which they answer themselves why those are less:

Presumably part of it is down to a diminishing appetite for the flatly racist caricatures that occupied the attentions of Stallone, Seagal and co for so long. Part of it too is down to simple economics: with mid-budget films having been all but squeezed out of existence, and the threshold for box-office success now absurdly high, global takings have become pivotal to whether a movie sinks or swims. In other words, Hollywood isn’t just courting America any more.

Selling stuff worldwide means not pissing on those audiences.

Who is this article even for?

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Mine are mostly old fantasy series that are slow-paced.

If that might work for you: 'The Misenchanted Sword' (Ethshar Series #1) by Lawrence Watt-Evans, and 'Magic Kingdom for Sale - SOLD!' (Landover series #1) by Terry Brooks.

Junk Food: I feel like these are quick and formulaic. The comfort being derived from knowing what to expect. Being fast-paced helps, but not always necessary if the formula/tropes/archetypes are well established.

Urban & Dark Fantasy - 'Storm Front' (Dresden Files #1) by Jim Butcher, and 'Dead Witch Walking' (Hollows series #1) by Kim Harrison. (Action, action, action.)

Sci-fi Action Adventures - 'Bypass Gemini' (Big Sigma series #1) by Joseph Lallo, and 'All System Red' (Murderbot series) by Martha Wells

Cozy Mystery - 'A Skeleton in the Family' (Family Skeleton series #1) by Leigh Perry, and 'Spell Booked' (A Retired Witches Mystery #1) by Joyce and Jim Lavene (Trope-y cringe for fun.)

Romance - 'Secrets of a Summer Night' (Historical, Wallflowers series #1) by Lisa Kleypas, and 'Soulbound' (Fantasy, The Return of the Elves series #1) by Bethany Adams (Romance is Romance is Romance. The inevitability of it can be a comfort or an amusement.)

For the cozy mysteries listed, you really have to let go of reading seriously. There are errors, anime mentions, off-the-wall trope-y stuff etc. It helps me get out of a slump if I've been reading super heavy/serious stuff and need a palate cleanser.

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I really enjoyed Dark Matter. It got a little wild as the story went on, but the premise was very good, and I enjoyed a lot of the characters. (Especially the Android)

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I like to reread a loved series/book between reading other things. It helps keep me from getting in a reading slump.

what's your favorite Gameboy game that isn't Pokemon or Mario?

I've just rediscovered my childhood Gameboys, I grew up in the 90s and had an original, a color, an advance and an sp. My game collection has whittled down over the year to the usual suspects, Pokemons, Zelda's, Mario's and some other standards. But I want to dive into some games that 7 year old me would have brushed over. So...

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Golden Sun and Fire Emblem were pretty much all I needed.

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For the adrenaline aspects... I had insomnia for years from anxiety+ issues. I know it might sound silly, but doing breathing exercises helped me calm my heart rate down to have a better chance to fall asleep.

I do a version of the 4-7-8 Breathing Exercise at this site: https://www.verywellmind.com/abdominal-breathing-2584115 (I do more of a 4-5-5 and don't bother with tongue placement. Just alternating nose/mouth breathing and holding breath in between.) It was recommended to me by a therapist and it helped my issues. I haven't tried the other exercises on there though.

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I do something like this, but instead listen to recordings of the animals from where I grew up. (Frogs chirping, rain in forest, and Barn Owl calls. Really relaxes me.) Also, I have found that if I watch a bunch of something that will make me laugh before laying down it helps. (Stand-up, comedy panel shows, Try Not to Laugh videos, etc.)

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I've used LibraryThing.com for years. Initially it was to maintain my personal library, but it has lots of ways to get recommendations that I love. It doesn't feel as much like social media, more a place to keep a catalogue, but there are social aspects. (Forums, friends, & comparing libraries.)

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Agreed! I devoured the series so fast, and have had a few rereads already. Another book you may like if you enjoy the Murderbot series is "Bypass Gemini" by Joseph Lallo. Space adventure kinda deal that comes up against corporate interests.

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I check out books form the library(mostly using Libby now.) Otherwise get recs from friends or LibraryThing, and then check them out digitally. If I really love them and know I will re-read them a lot I buy physical copies.

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