I mean attraction is very complex. Beauty standards change through the ages, so while it can be jarring to look at a old photograph, particularly one from a (presumably) very different culture to your own, it’s important to remember the amount of space and time that you are looking through.
That’s what I’m saying, kind of. Like, if the young people looked like this too, it wouldn’t have prevented the opposite sex from finding them attractive, since breeding kept happening.
I find that attraction evolves with age, and it becomes easier to see imperfection, differences, and/or signs of age as erotic. There is the eroticism of youth that we all seem to come by naturally, and then there is the eroticism of experience, that is an acquired, but powerful, taste.
I appreciate your attempt to clarify - you’re thinking about being sexually attracted? I’m an American woman in the 21st century who has spent a lifetime being just horrifyingly objectified, so I’m struggling with this.
From a no-fap perspective, and not being affected by cultural constraints, I see vibrant, powerful people who can handle life’s shit. There’s amazing beauty in this. Also, just being brutally honest, I think they’d slap you silly for wanting to reduce them to fuck-marry-kill.
I mean I hear ya, but most of those folks look pretty old. A lot of cultures have elder traditions that don’t exactly include looking hot. No idea, but given how old the photo is, might be they’re important village elders, or people like priests/spiritual leaders, and they’re wearing ceremonial stuff also.
Front row center is a stone cold fox. Just to the left of them - that grin? That's game. And the person just behind and between them has such a kind face, I bet they'd be a generous lover.
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