grips, introducing: the @p number
@p number = 0: the person is @p
@p number = 1: the person had an argument with @p
@p number = 2: the person had an argument with a person who had an argument with @p
@p number = 3: the person had an argument with a person who had an argument with a person who...
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@p number = n+1: the person had an argument with a person with the @p number equal to n