cowboycrustation

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

It sounds like that’s specifically the trans men that you know, not a majority. I know plenty of trans men who are chronically online.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/10732218

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

She probably saw my survey post and either already had the data or wanted to collect more data. I don’t find it too weird.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

Why is hexbear defederated?

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

I’m pissed about this. On the survey I did, there are even less than that. There were more cis women than binary trans men in the results. It’s ridiculous and is a problem that needs fixing.

c/FTM is miniscule in size compared to MTF. Why would trans men want to be here if there’s hardly any on here? I say this as a trans man myself.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago (edited 2 months ago)

Tumblr does have a sizable portion of trans men. Reddit does too. I can’t speak for Twitter and tiktok because I don’t use them. That’s a good idea for reaching out to those platforms.

I’d be weary to reach out to Twitter and tiktok for fear of attracting too many trolls. They seem like worse cesspools than Tumblr and reddit at the moment, especially Twitter.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

Ughhhh I hate trans infighting. Why’d they have to be asses.

And geez, that’s the dumbest complaint. The blahaj admins clearly try hard to do their jobs. What did they expect them to do, never sleep? Entitled behavior. If they want things done faster, they should have offered to help or find help.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

Dang…I did see a lot of tankie shit in the meta thread. That’s too bad it happened like that. Always makes me sad when there’s infighting among trans people.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

“I DoNt Do ThAt PrOnOuN sHiT”

Okay…can’t make a coherent sentence in English

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago (edited 2 months ago)

And Instagram…there’s so much transphobia on there. So much transphobia. Sometimes it’s on posts that have nothing to do with being trans. I don’t even consume trans content on there and it still manages to show up from time to time.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

That sucks that happened with 196. I blocked it pretty much the day I got Lemmy because I found the content annoying. It seems so out of place on this instance. My experience on here has been good so far.

I agree with you that most people would want to unite if it were only the trans communities on here. The more people, the more support and resources.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

I appreciate the offer, but I’ve really got my hands full moderating six different communities on here.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

No, that’s not it. The demographics aren’t as skewed as the stereotypes of reddit say that they are, especially in recent years.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

Entitled wasn’t the right word for me to use. I meant moreso that it’s not wholly realistic. I agree with you that trans people deserve a place to not see that stuff, but I’ve had times where I’ve removed comments the second it was posted and two days later I’d still be getting reports because of third party readers with slower refresh rates.

Everybody’s working hard to get this place modded more efficiently. This community is only about two months old so we’re still trying to figure things out. Most of the stuff that I’ve had to remove on here requires more investigation than your typical auto mod can catch, although we do have an auto blacklist flagging system. I do want to ensure that this is a safe place for trans people to express themselves.

I’m glad that hexbear has been able to help people out with mutual aid. I passionately believe in the concept of mutual aid. We recently had someone who very well could have ended up homeless and in danger but the community pulled together to get them financial help and a place to stay. I hope that similar outcomes can happen for people who are in need in the future. We have a support network and community in the works right now.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago (edited 2 months ago)

Y’all. This is not the place to have hexbear vs blahaj round three and make personal insults. Your comment will be removed if you do this. If you violate this repeatedly you will get a temporary ban.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

This is very helpful, thank you. Any tips on burning the old body fat?

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

Hell, I used to feel terrified to shop in the men’s section. Now it feels like second nature.

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

“It must just be a phase…I’ll grow out of it any day now…any day now…ANY DAY NOW”

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

I don’t get the George hype but all things must pass is a very good album

cowboycrustation, 2 months ago

Yeah unfortunately the one I posed about is too short as well, but you get what you can take with trans man rep.

Pleeeease comment on whatever you want. This community needs more engagement, doesn’t matter how old the post is. I’m happy to reply to anyone’s posts and comments on here.