im trying to destroy the concept of assigned gender. stop telling people to be a gender. why you gotta be an asshole like that. stop making "cis" people just let them be people who figure themselves out and figure out their own gender expression and let the concept of "cis" die with you
@rachaelspooky "youre trying to make my kid trans" no I'm trying to run a safe space in which kids are allowed to question their identity, learn from adult trans folk and see if that aligns with their experience. I am not forcing anyone to partake in this community, nor am I forcing anyone to be trans or not to be trans in order to partake. I just run a community full of queer people who often share their experiences in the hopes that others read them, figure out a bit more about themselves while doing so.
@rachaelspooky yeah I’ve seen people be caught in the crossfire because they genuinely had alt text it just was not federating out. seems to be between *key based instances and mastodon (glitch-soc is the only one I have tested). I’ve only seen it from glitch-sock to key I’m not sure if the inverse happens
:boostRequest: MUTUAL AID HELP NEEDED :boostRequest:
this country is such fucking bullshit. Indiana asked me to attend an in-person meeting at the unemployment office, i had to reschedule it because i have a job interview. they said it was fine, i could do it next week, i thought it was all squared away.
turns out theyre holding that against me as "not trying to find a job" and denying me a week of unemployment?!?! what the actual fuck?!?! i was relying on that for bills!?!?!?!?!
can yall help me make up what the state has robbed me of? anything you can do is wildly appreciated you have no idea
fun fact my name i chose for myself years ago is actually rachael laura, cuz i like both names, but i never really worked out how to go by two first names so laura kinda got pushed to the side, middle name style. but i want it on equal footing so im gonna try to use it more and yall are welcome to call me laura for funsies :3
hey so i got help on my rent, im going to be okay. i had to get that help from family, though, and it's going to be a really big inconvenience to them. i have such incredible guilt about it.
@rachaelspookyhttps://github.com/kovidgoyal/kitty I install it via brew for macOS. Otherwise I use my system’s package manager. I prefer kitty over alacritty because alacritty has some weird things it does. Just a personal preference honestly
what's that alternate vim you all like. im trying to fight my avpd and im in a VERY SMALL WINDOW where i can install new software without having a breakdown over it