Lots of good recommendations already, I'll add some as well. Which should all be pretty much as non-fanservicey, loli, and misogyny free as isekai and fantasy anime get.
For something chill, an isekai that makes you want to eat
Restaurant to Another World
Gritty Fantasy Isekai
Grimgar: Ashes and Illusions
Fun Romping Around Fantasy Isekai
In the Land of Leadale
For the whole package of romance, fantasy, and a quality story