Absolutely! I guess I wasn’t arguing against you so much as saying “Well it’s a bit of both.”
ADHD makes society’s ridiculous mandated coercion much more difficult, but it also gets in my own personal way when there’s things I want/need to do and it purposely sabotages me, y’know?
It definitely creates a negative feedback loop. Socioeconomic pressures on ADHD brains make the personal tasks worse, which in turn make the socioeconomic ones more difficult, and round and round we go…
I’m glad we can agree mutually on something with absolute certainty though: my boss was indeed, an idiot. 😉