When you say “cedineg a right wing talking point”, you mean admitting the right is correct about something, right? I’m as left as they come but I don’t see a problem with that. The right is correct that the sky is blue. The right is correct that water is wet. The right was (partially) correct that chemicals in the water were turning the frogs gay, and the right is (partially) correct that an armed population is a necessary component of a healthy democracy. I’m just seeing this as an issue of ego. If you have an unhealthy ego, then you worry about denying any and all criticism. But if you have a big healthy ego, then you take criticism onboard and improve. 99% of what the right criticises us for is wrong, but that 1% is a chance for us to improve. I have a huge ego, and my thinking is we could either fight the right on this and be 99% correct, or we could be nonbinary allies, “cede a talking point”, and get closer to perfection.
I don’t know I’m not trying to be reactionary, I’m just thinking that pretending enbies’ criticisms don’t exist in order to “stick it to the right” is erasure and bad. It should be about doing the right thing, not about winning. We only truly win by doing the right thing.