Und ich muss auch sagen seitdem ich mehrere Exfreund hatte die Informatiker waren und absolut keine Grenzen kannten was es digitale Gewalt angeht und sich dann eher noch so drüber lustig gemacht haben, so nach dem Motto stell dich nicht an und so schlimm ist dass alles gar nicht.
Z.B. heimlich eine Kamera im Bücherregal Installiert, oder angedroht die kompletten privaten Email Daten im Darknet öffentlich zu machen wenn an hinterfragt, ob er das mit dem Kindesmissbrauch Material melden darf...
Der scheiß den er gemacht hat war halt schon illegal und er hat versucht mich psychisch unter Druck zu setzen, dass ich nicht zur Polizei damit gehe, was funktionieren hat.
@ViolaB so do I. nationalism is all about finding differences in people that are mostly all the same. finns and germans are not that much different.
although if any finnish woman started wearing lederhosen, eating sauerkraut and telling people constantly that "ich bin ein Berliner", she'd probably end up to a psych ward very quickly.
Also this is not funny at all at lot of people are extremly into bavarian kitsch as an expression of beeing German and the creepy thing ist that it was invented from the Nazis and has Not much to do with traditional historical german clothes at all.
@ViolaB well, we have our fascist past also to deal with and it's very creepy, when someone is performing as a typical normal finn very loudly, because everything even remotely extreme is considered unfinnish. our food tastes very bland and beer tastes like piss, because we try to be as humble as possible. we all wear gray and black clothes, so no one can see us.
there's a joke about finn in a zoo watching an elephant. other nationalities are fascinated about this fantastic creature and finn is thinking "I wonder what that elephant thinks about me?"
@ViolaB well, finn would be devastated, if elephant hadn't any opinions, because everytime Finland is mentioned in a good way in international news media, it's like winning an ice hockey championship. that's one good reason we loved Sanna Marin, because every goddamn foreign newspaper adored her 😆
but she was hated for the same reason: she got everyone's attention and that's not finnish.
@ViolaB well, I did read her biography and I have to say I like her. she has a good heart although she's quite conservative. I don't know what kind of politician she actually was, but the book was good.
@Joni oh I see, it was kind out of my mind... Nowadays not many progressive people are connected with the eastern part of Germany. I started to disslike eastern Germany the AfD is extremly popular there.
@ViolaB I visited the stasi prison one time I visited Berlin and I think it broke me a bit. I've read some books about life in DDR, but seeing the scars still visible in Berlin was something I wasn't ready.
@Joni Been there too it was creepy as fck. My longterm and first exboyfriend had real horrible family story connected to the DDR. They just broke families in a extremly cruel way to keep The system alive.
@ViolaB well, after the war Soviet Union had a quite strong grip of Finland until it collapsed, so we have our unsolved past too, but probably not as difficult as yours. we weren't divided by a wall.
@ViolaB Trump and far right has a very strong connection to Kreml. it is not a coinsidence that Ukraine war and rising of far right in USA and in Europe happens in the same time.
@ViolaB well, I haven't spend that much time in youtube, except for watching music videos. if I want my brain washed with conspiracy theories, I prefer a book.
you probably know more about our recent pop culture than I do 😁
I did write a lot stuff. As well also as a symptom of a manic episode so I am quite unsure what I did. I can't remember... I but In wrote stuff in german and english.
German is not so easy and nice to express feelings and so on... not enough space for puns...
@ViolaB well, I don't know if I am able to teach you anything about writing poems, but I sure love poetry. if you want to write and show them to someone, I'll be happy to read them and correct misspellings.
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