Drawing. I used to aspire to be a serious graphic novelist, but that was really hard and really stressful. So I set that aside for a little while and tried drawing hentai instead, since I was always kinda into it. I figured I’d never show any of it to anybody, so I took it less seriously and had more fun with it.
It still feels kinda silly to say, but the experience sorta helped me discover a feminine side I didn’t realize I had, and gave me the space and a medium to explore it. Eventually I tried drawing myself as a woman, and then it was just a matter of accepting that I wanted it to be a reality.