Feeling very alone (kinda venty)

LegionEris, 7 months ago

Yeah, don’t waste time and energy on people who don’t support you given ample time and opportunity, family or otherwise. All the people in my life who only know the real me are fucking amazing. Dedicate your energy to making new connections. Spend time with people who only know one version of you and want to spend time with that person. They’re out there. You are loved, in both action and potential <3

Sleepy_Zee_Dragon, 7 months ago

Yea I am def moving away from family and gonna start fresh somewhere else I don’t like it where I am atm. I always found is so hard to find other folks tho and connect to them so kinda afraid of just being alone really. I find it hard to feel or think that I can actually be loved but I guess I just got to hang in there

LegionEris, 7 months ago

I promise that it is so, so much easier to make connections as yourself. I was much the same as you. I was very isolated as a child and taught nothing good about engaging with people and the world. I didn’t have real friends for more than a decade. Now that I just get to live as myself, people love me. I have genuine friends I can trust and count on. People like me quickly where they used to kinda come around to me slowly and keep me at a distance. Changing yourself changes your world. Just go be yourself with confidence. People like yourself and who like you will be drawn to you.

wreckedcarzz, 7 months ago

This makes me quite sad. I have two friends transitioning rn and they have partners and a somewhat supportive families (and the members who aren’t they dropped a few years ago). But to feel like you are all alone is :(!

I’m terrible with making friends or anything social, really, I’m anxious af (terrible adolescent and teen years, so I distanced myself from all but a handful of close people). The ones I have I like very much, but I don’t really understand the process of making new friends, others just sort of bring me into their circles and I’m like ‘oh ok’. But if you want to chat about whatever, maybe play some games, you can pm me. This goes for anyone else reading this and feeling similar. I’m super awkward but if I can maybe make someone’s day or be someone to just talk to, I’ll break out of my shell and try to be supportive. I’ve been trying to push myself socially anyway, not be so scared of interacting with others, so I’d be mutually beneficial. Plus, yay friend maybe?

Regardless, I hope you find some people who support you. internet hug!

Maoo, 7 months ago

I’m so sorry you’re having to go through this alone. Or maybe I should say alone irl, because you can always talk to us. (Supportive) Community can be so helpful during any part of transitioning. It’s unfortunate that we’re so often stripped of it and it’s not our fault.

I’m happy you hit some transition goals!