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ActuallyAutistic

@ActuallyAutistic@autistics.life

I love good food, music, friends, and the boston sports teams!
I'm a collector of electronics, games, and more!

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ashleyspencer, to random
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Me and my little husky plush went to the store to get snacks and other stuff.

I made myself leave because I havenโ€™t gone anywhere in a few weeks. Only open the door to put out the trash.

Brought the plushie along on my lap for moral support.

ActuallyAutistic,
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@ashleyspencer awe, that plushy is soooooo cute ๐Ÿ˜ you look great girl

ActuallyAutistic,
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@ashleyspencer you're very welcome ๐Ÿ˜Š i love being here on mastodon. I'm so grateful

ActuallyAutistic, to random
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https://www.newportinstitute.com/resources/mental-health/echoism/ - A friend of mine was telling me about this word today. I did a google search and stumbled across this, and holy shit did I cry while reading this. The 12 signs mentioned, most of them I can relate to. I don't speak for everyone else, but, this helps explain a number of things for me personally. I don't know if this will help anyone, but, wanted to share this...

ashleyspencer, to random
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I got the manufactured plushie.

Itโ€™s AWFUL. I hate it.

They ensured me the fabric would be very soft and it feels rough. Super unpleasant to touch.

Itโ€™s supposed to be a cat holding an infinity symbol but it doesnโ€™t look like a cat in person.

What the f did they do ๐Ÿ˜ญ

ActuallyAutistic,
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@ashleyspencer I am so sorry :( I am not a fan of that design at all.

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@ashleyspencer I agree.

ActuallyAutistic, to random
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How is everyone doing today? Hope you all are doing alright and you have a good friday and weekend :)

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra Today has not exactly been gracious to me, so it's been tough. But, I'll do what I do best and just get through it I guess... The job is still going great right now, haven't been any problems so far :) 3 month anniversary is on may 9th, and I'll see what happens then.

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra Yes it is :) They go by the day I signed the offer sheet for the job was what i was told by my supervisor. Eval should come then and my 1 year eval will be next february

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra Thank you very much :) I appreciate that. I'll post another update on that when that happens with the results.

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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5286449/ - I read this whole study sent to me by a friend of mine and I also found it interesting that autistic people we're 'disliked' because of by and large dishonest social norms and behaviors that we usually don't exhibit in our individual lives. I have to thank @WyredAlice for this article and her thoughts on this.

ActuallyAutistic, to random
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I've been with this new job for over a month and a half, and holy crap the praise and compliments I get from the office workers have been remarkable. I got told I'm a badass dude that does good work by one of the office guys :) And my boss told me thank you for your good work, I appreicate you. She and the others are ABSOLUTELY fucking amazing!!! I may have finally found my forever job here at coxhealth! I'm so thankful man.... Wipes tears Sorry, got a tad emotional there.

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra Me too, I went through so much with the last job and conditions, and all the hunting I did to find this one. I really hope I can hold on to this one and make it work.

ActuallyAutistic, to random
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Been getting really heavy into the RTS game series called Age of Empires lately :) New job is still going well, no problems so far. I'm collecting the versions of age of empires I can get my hands on. This franchise means a lot to me :)

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra so, there are remastered versions of the 1st 3 games, then a new game age of empires iv (4)

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra I can provide a link or multiple links for the age of empires remastered versions if you wish

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra Gotcha :) I understand. I've been playing most of the campaign of Age of Empires 1 Definitive Edition so far, also revisiting Rise of Nations as well :)

ActuallyAutistic, to random
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One thing I wish I could do more is just relax and decompress, but, with my new job schedule and weekends off work, I always have something going on that has to be done. I feel that my days of relaxing and decompressing are over now, I can't even get 5 minutes to decompress and get relief. Guess there's nothing I can do???

ashleyspencer, to random
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Those of us on https://autistics.life:

We had 7 spam accounts created today. Most while I was sleeping last night. I deleted the accounts when I woke up. We had one just now and I caught it immediately and deleted their account. I made this server manual approval needed and require a reason to join to ensure a real person is sending the request.

Just to keep you updated. :RedHearts:

ActuallyAutistic,
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@ashleyspencer Thank you for doing what you do. If I come across an account that's suspicious, what do you want me to do?

ActuallyAutistic,
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@ashleyspencer You got it.

ActuallyAutistic, to random
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Well, I visited my local SSI office today about the overpayment and yes, I am afraid I have to get a payment plan setup and I owe a whopping $16 GRAND after going over all of it today. sigh Makes me absolutely sick to my stomach

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra That is EXACTLY how I feel.

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra it's a mess, i still can't quite process what happened either. It's a lot to learn and absorb.

ActuallyAutistic, to random
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After all the applying for jobs at coxhealth, the emails, phone calls, getting interviews left and right, I FINALLY landed one today! I'm truly speechless, I can't believe this is happening. I can't wait to start a new chapter in my life, I'm so grateful.

ActuallyAutistic,
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@Cassandra Thank you :) Oh man, I can finally breathe a sigh of relief.

ashleyspencer, to random
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Practiced making it look like the plushies are taking selfies with the selfie stick. :)

Red panda close up of its hands and face like itโ€™s taking a selfie.

ActuallyAutistic,
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@ashleyspencer Aww, I love this picture with you and the penguin :)

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