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HaleyHalcyon

@HaleyHalcyon@kbin.social

1999-02-05 | bi and trans, NOT the Q-slur | Shavian alphabet enthusiast | bad trivia player

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๐‘ฃ๐‘จ๐‘๐‘ฆ ๐‘ฏ๐‘ฟ ๐‘˜๐‘ฝ! ๐‘ฒ ๐‘š๐‘ฎ๐‘ฆ๐‘™ ๐‘‘ ๐‘ฟ ๐‘•๐‘ณ๐‘ฅ ๐‘š๐‘ณ๐‘œ ๐‘“๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘•๐‘ฉ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ฏ ๐‘ฏ๐‘ฟ ๐‘“๐‘ฐ๐‘—๐‘ผ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘“ ยท๐‘–๐‘ฆ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ด.

HaleyHalcyon,
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๐‘ข๐‘ง๐‘ฏ ๐‘ฉ๐‘ฏ โธฐ๐‘ฆ ๐‘ฆ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘๐‘ฎ๐‘ฉ๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ๐‘ฏ๐‘•๐‘‘ ๐‘จ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ฆ๐‘ฏ ยซ๐‘ฃ๐‘จ๐‘๐‘ฆยป, ๐‘ฆ๐‘‘ ๐‘ฏ๐‘ด๐‘‘๐‘ฑ๐‘‘๐‘• ๐‘ฆ๐‘‘ ๐‘ข๐‘ฆ๐‘ž ๐‘ฉ ๐‘›๐‘ช๐‘‘๐‘ฉ๐‘› i.

HaleyHalcyon,
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Thatโ€™s not very user-friendly. And impractical for >99% of users.

HaleyHalcyon,
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๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ ๐‘ž๐‘บ ๐‘ธ!

HaleyHalcyon,
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Iโ€™ve heard of the term โ€œcopyleftโ€, which allows everyone EXCEPT corporations to use a certain work.

Why is every Searx instance down when I try to use it?

I want to use SearxNG as my daily driver, and I added three instances to my browserโ€™s search engines list. However, I find that all three are down whenever I try to use it, and I inevitably have to look at the list of instances and click the top one just to perform one search. Is there a way to โ€œauto-routeโ€ my search...

HaleyHalcyon,
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Itโ€™s a reflection of the age range of the mainstream trans discourse participants

HaleyHalcyon,
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When Pride Parades are chanting โ€œweโ€™re here, weโ€™re q****, weโ€™re coming for your childrenโ€, you canโ€™t blame grooming accusers for believing that. ๐Ÿคข

HaleyHalcyon,
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Many LGBT people canโ€™t bring themselves to face the emotion caused by how widespread it is to be called the Q-slur.

HaleyHalcyon,
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Iโ€™m of the opinion that โ€œLGBโ€ backlash is directly in response to the Q-slur discourse. They see their radicalism, hypersexuality, attention-seeking behavior, and other stuff that disproportionately benefits cishets over LGBT people, and falsely assume that all trans people are q***rs.

HaleyHalcyon,
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When I think of โ€œmainstream Q-slur discourseโ€, I think of things like equivocating over microlabels while also claiming they donโ€™t like labels, forcing the adoption of neopronouns when the singular they is already widespread and fills that role, giving transphobes excuse after excuse to misgender us in the form of โ€œhe identifies as a womanโ€ and โ€œheโ€™s a she/her manโ€, harassing and unpersoning anyone in the LGBT community when they even begin to stray from eat-the-rich communism, glorifying sexuality, et cetera et cetera.

I do not feel welcome in any community that calls itself that slur. I can explain my reasoning on why โ€œpansexualโ€ is defined in terms of biphobic stereotypes, why โ€œpronouns donโ€™t equal genderโ€ allows an influx of attention-seeking cis people into the LGBT community, and why โ€œtruscumโ€ are ostracized from the trans community despite being the definition of โ€œtransgenderโ€ when it entered the public lexicon, if you want me to.

HaleyHalcyon,
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Eat the rich isn't strictly a "communist ideology".

Itโ€™s one of the tamer examples, but itโ€™s the truth that q**** discourse participants very often are quick to condemn anyone who disagrees with them for any reason as โ€œq****phobicโ€ or worse, something that actually has meaning but is misused like โ€œfascistโ€, โ€œhomophobeโ€, โ€œtransphobeโ€, or โ€œpedophileโ€.

You do not have to be apart of every community, that sounds exhausting. I wouldn't feel welcomed in a lesbian meetup, so do not feel bad. It is good to have these in existence.

The problem is that there are no LGBT communities that are not called LGBTQ or overrun by q****s.

If pronouns are not for prescribing gender then what are they for?

I ask that to neopronoun users all the time.

If you want to be accepted in society then you explicitly need their acceptance. I see no reason why a cishet person should be barred from pride festivals, dragshows, or even LGBT tv shows.

Same, but Iโ€™m thinking of cishets who claim to be โ€œq****โ€ for no other reason than they feel like it.

My understanding of "truscum" is them believing that trans women aren't women.

That is false. You are confusing truscum with transgender deniers / TERFs / gender criticals.

HaleyHalcyon,
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I should probably learn how to do that formatting. It's easily understood. Do you mind linking me to where I could learn?

Prepend > to each line of text. Look up โ€œMarkdownโ€.

I have not really experienced that before. [...] I do not believe in evil. People are doing what they think is the best thing to do. Hurt people hurt people. If you treat hurt people with hostility, then you will get hostility in return. The online space is great for people to put their inner most thoughts. Everyone has random thoughts, and they can be destructive.

I believe that evil is when โ€œwhat they think is the best thing to doโ€ intentionally hurts others.

To me I don't see that much difference between people who call themselves LGBT and people who call themselves the catch all term. But to someone who wishes to exclude them I understand that frustration.

If youโ€™ve been hurt by a slur, and someoneโ€™s trying to cheapen the slur by including non-homosexual, non-bisexual, non-transgender people into the community with it as the excuse, and often not even recognizing it as a slur, youโ€™d want it OUT.

I see no reason why a cishet person couldn't be the term you dislike. Sexuality tends to be one of the first things targeted in genocides.

You see no reason why a cishet person couldnโ€™t creep into the community defined by not being a cishet, then?

I'm sorry I don't understand that term. Do you mind telling me what that is?

โ€œTruscumโ€ is a pejorative for a trans person who defines the word โ€œtransgenderโ€ as โ€œa person who experiences gender dysphoria (distressing evidence of mismatching sex and gender identity), or someone who used to and has transitionedโ€.

The opposite is โ€œtucuteโ€ (also known as โ€œtranstrenderโ€) deriving from โ€œtoo cute to be cisโ€. It is someone who says anyone whosoever who says theyโ€™re trans is trans, and you are an โ€œexclusionistโ€ for thinking otherwise in any case. Tucutes call truscum โ€œtransphobicโ€, which is ironic because tucutes cheapen the word โ€œtransgenderโ€ and ruin the integrity of the trans community from within and its public relations from without.

rtq2e8, to Shavian

๐‘ข๐‘ช๐‘‘ ๐‘›๐‘ณ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ž โ€œOCโ€ ๐‘ฆ๐‘ฏ ๐‘“๐‘ฎ๐‘ณ๐‘ฏ๐‘‘ ๐‘ ๐‘ž ๐‘‘๐‘ฒ๐‘‘๐‘ฉ๐‘ค ๐‘ฅ๐‘ฐ๐‘ฏ?

HaleyHalcyon,
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@rtq2e8 Original Content.

KJ7QLV, to Shavian
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๐‘ก๐‘ณ๐‘•๐‘‘ ๐‘œ๐‘ฑ๐‘ ยท๐‘–๐‘ฆ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ด ๐‘ฉ ๐‘‘๐‘ฎ๐‘ฒ. ๐‘ž๐‘ฆ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ข๐‘ช๐‘Ÿ ๐‘ฉ ๐‘›๐‘ต๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ ๐‘ ๐‘ฉ ๐‘“๐‘ป๐‘•๐‘‘ ๐‘๐‘ณ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฉ๐‘ค ๐‘‘ ๐‘‘๐‘จ๐‘’๐‘ฉ๐‘ค.

HaleyHalcyon,
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@KJ7QLV ๐‘ข๐‘ง๐‘ค ๐‘›๐‘ณ๐‘ฏ! ๐‘ฒ ๐‘•๐‘ฉ๐‘ก๐‘ง๐‘•๐‘‘ ๐‘œ๐‘ง๐‘•๐‘ฆ๐‘™ ๐‘“๐‘ป๐‘•๐‘‘ โธฐ๐‘ฆ โธฐ๐‘ฏ โธฐ๐‘ค โธฐ๐‘› โธฐ๐‘Ÿ โธฐ๐‘‘ โธฐ๐‘• โธฐ๐‘ผ.

Judge rules Utah city violated first amendment when it refused permit for drag show | Boing Boing (boingboing.net)

A federal judge ruled that St. George, Utah, violated the U.S. constitution when it denied a permit to a drag show, and must allow the all-ages event to go ahead in a public park. "Public spaces are public spaces. Public spaces are not private spaces. Public spaces are not majority spaces,"...

HaleyHalcyon,
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I'm torn because I hate discrimination,but I also hate drag.

HaleyHalcyon,
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VIC police asked โ€œWhat are pedestrians doing around 60 km/h zones?โ€, while the correct question to pose was โ€œWhat are 60 km/h zones doing around pedestrians?โ€.

HaleyHalcyon, to LGBT
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Anyone else feel oppressed by the Q-slur and feel that its widespread use harms LGBT rights more than it helps? It feels like every LGBT-adjacent โ€œsafe spaceโ€ isnโ€™t safe for those affected by the Q-slur, especially on Pride Month.

HaleyHalcyon,
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@liontigerwings Reclaiming it gives another meaning, at least in the theory of reclaiming.

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