Same here, 3rd party apps didn't really affect me; but their treatment and attitude towards developers, users, and moderators got me to delete my 13yo account and walk away.
Minecraft with mods definetly - really adds a lot of variety, and even though I take long breaks i've been playing it a ridiculous amount of time since early beta maybe 11 or so years ago.
I do modding for a game (Vintage Story). Always get rapid fire requests for all this stuff I could just quickly add related to the mod at hand or not.
Also the fact that I play Minecraft & Vintage Story - must be running around like in some meme. Nah, VS is much more chill and I guess mature maybe (not in an adult content sort of way). And in MC I'm usually doing like GregTech or some technical mod where i'm slowly torturing myself to assemble this and collect that.
It's like trying to casually enjoy Rick & Morty. Some people assume you must be obsessed with it, and of course there's the "only smrt people get this" crowd. So I just quietly watch it.