I can't say I can pin down an exact time, but by the time I had learned about BDSM on the internet I was sure I would like it. The first thing I remember was REALLY liking the scene in Aladdin where Jasmine was chained up by Jafar
I had degradation and humiliation fantasies with my stuffies when I was like seven.
When Jabba had Leia chained and under his control, that was hot! I think that’s the earliest kinky memory I have that I understood was sexual at the time it happened.
Imo there’s a disconnect between what “kinky” is and what “catholic shame” breeds. I’m not super kinky compared to my poly friend with a fuckin dungeon in his basement, but I don’t want to just have missionary sex in the dark before bed with shame following. My wife and I enjoy sex, and for some that is “kinky” which I guess?
I do like restraints, slapping, choking, and a healthy dose of dom/sub tho >:)
it's a spectrum. people who are super vanilla think anything outside of PnV sex is kinky af. those who are into piss play or bruising think cuffs and slapping is vanilla.
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