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11 Who supports your writing the most?

Ah, wow. This is a toughie. Most to least isn't how I measure. I heart all the supports, from my superhero Spouseman who alpha reads AND supports us both financially, to every reader who's ever bought my books & said something kind about them.

but NGL the most meaningful help comes from you fellow writers. You're there for me w/ideas &resources when I need 'em, & you just get it when I'm stuck & frustrated & need to vent.

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12 12. Have you ever wanted to give up writing?

Nope. Sure there have been days (months/years) when I don't write, but I've never thought of those not-writing times as giving up, only...necessary pauses.

What keeps me going is a refusal to beat myself up over metrics like word counts, "daily writing" or speed of draft completion. Words are patient, I have found.

Professional & productive are not synonyms, even if capitalism wants us to believe they are.

IMHO YMMV etc.

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13 Share a great writing review/ message/ compliment

My trifecta:

  1. someone once compared my books to Sharon Lee & Steve Miller's work. The Liaden series is a huge influence on my writing, so that one = smiles forever.

  2. a Goodreads review called my style "a wonder...terse and spare, a lean greyhound eating up the track." O.O

  3. My brother complained bc no one warned him I wrote hot sex scenes. (There's no actual sex in my books. TV-14, at most. So it makes me giggle.)

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#WordWeavers 14. Do you write characters with different sexual orientations and gender identities from your own? What guides your writing?

Welp. Yes. If I stuck to my own, my books would only have gender-nonconforming demi-bi women pairbonded with cis-het men...which, cool by me, but maybe limiting?

The further from my own experience I get, the more research & sensitivity checking I do, but I want to write realistic & relatable characters. Including sexual diversity has to be part of that.

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