Rhabuko,

Circlejerk communities. They almost always end up being worse than the actual places they make fun of.

Anticorp,

Probably because people who choose to spend their day mocking other people or ideas aren’t very good people to begin with.

Footsie5680,

Reminds me of the meme culture in discussing politics, ugh. Absolutely hate it. Like, instead of making reasonable arguments, it’s memes and memes… and people somehow feel smart and superior while posting these.

Wurstkiste,

Circle jerk because of dissenting opinions, regardless of their objective legitimacy, getting downvoted to oblivion

Sinister_Grape,
@Sinister_Grape@lemmy.world avatar

Photos of people’s wives or girlfriends - often taken without their wife or girlfriend’s consent - playing video games, with vaguely condescending titles about it “only being the Sims / Animal Crossing” and half the replies being absolutely vile. As a Woman Who Plays Video Games, it was awfully annoying.

Ghoelian,

Was that a big thing on Reddit? I don’t feel like I’ve seen those kinds of posts at least.

Guess I somehow managed to avoid them despite all the gaming-related subreddits I followed.

CorruptBuddha,

Gotta ask now… Do you play more then Sims/Animal crossing?

Sinister_Grape,
@Sinister_Grape@lemmy.world avatar

Buddy, I beat Radahn pre-nerf.

meldroc,

Safe spaces for fascism. Spez let The_Donald and its imitators fester for years, thus turning Reddit into a de facto Nazi Bar. Thus years of harassing non-fascists & minorities, brigading, spouting bigotry, disinformation and toxicity while the admins yawned.

mindrover,

Unfortunately fascist spaces will exist and cannot be prevented because of the core nature of Lemmy/fediverse architecture. Anyone can start their own instance and post whatever they want.

However, if the main popular instances defederate with them, then most users won’t have to see those posts.

MisterD,

AFAIK the following have been defederated or blocked otherwise: -theDonald -exploding heads -meta (on going)

meldroc,

Yep. Defederation’s the best weapon here. Keep the fascists ostracized!

josephsh98,

Getting banned by a sub for simply being, or even engaging in another sub!

Fapper_McFapper,

Yeah, that was really annoying. I hated and still hate the bots and the advertisement and the incessant arguing but that ban for making a comment on another sub was absolutely infuriating. And it was always a shadowban, at least in my experience, they never notified you, you only came to realize it when in the middle of a conversation people just stop conversing. Fuck Reddit.

meldroc,

Had that happen to me a couple times, though it was a smaller sub, and the mods knew I was a regular. I posted, forgetting I was in one of those subs, to tell a right-wing troll what I really thought of him, and the autoban went down.

Though in my case, it wasn’t a big deal - I appealed, worded my appeal in a friendly way, and I was reinstated in 5 min.

I think in this case, the autoban was put in place simply because of the nature of the sub - it was a leftish political sub that got brigaded and trolled regularly by Reddit’s resident chuds.

josephsh98,

I get it in the case of a political sub. What I don’t get is getting banned by a sub that has absolutely fuck all to do with politics just because of the political views of the moderator(s). It thankfully never happened to me personally, but I find the concept very fucking atrocious.

Shad0w,

Toxic gatekeeping in communities.

DrSleepless,

Spez

_Sprite,
@_Sprite@lemmy.world avatar

A meme sub that doesn’t devolve into coomposting, edgelords, or femboy fetishization after 100k

TheCommonMan,

Help me name my pet, because I have no creatively or originality and am a karma whore.

OreoCat,

Ads and rage bait content farm

Veltoss,

All the mindless circlejerking and echochambers. I hope the federation helps split up communities about the same topic which should help prevent echochambers from being as strong, and keep people seeing more information and opinions about the same topic.

I was so tired of seeing blatant lies and misinformation being spread just because it fit people’s narratives. Like those “dawn project” tesla videos, people hate musk so much (which I’m sure all the much worse billionaires love), so they feel they must hate teslas too, so they keep spreading those videos that have been debunked and proven incredibly questionable that were made by a competitor that’s been failing to compete. That’s just one tiny example. Don’t even get me started on the outright lights and misinformation people spread about crypto.

And of course if anyone ever tried to correct anyone, share actual facts, real articles from trusted sources, anything that went against a particular thread’s circlejerk, you would just be harassed, personally insulted, and downvoted immediately. It was so hilarious and sad spending time responding to someone’s bullshit with real information and a real argument just for them to do a one-liner personal insult based on nothing, because they knew they didn’t actually have anything but the circlejerk is all that really ever mattered.

I’m ranting, but this attitude people have of just not caring about reality when the lies fit what the circlejerking hivemind wants is one of my biggest gripes about modern internet and it’s incredibly dangerous. It’s exactly the mindset that trump supporters have that allows them to believe whatever the fuck they want and that led to people dying at the capitol, and it’s the type of mindset that will eventually lead to far worse things if social media companies don’t do more to combat misinformation and echochambers.

Crampon,

Reddit and hating people is really strange. They hate Musk, which is fine. But the arguments are always how bad the cars are. (They’re not), hiwbhis rocket blew up (it was predicted it would) without admitting he owns the most successful car brands right now, and is big in space programs.

Also with Trump. Disliking him is great. But reddit focuses on his hair and skin colour instead of exposing his shitty politics or disregard for national security.

Reddit sucks at informative chooses because every challenge to an established echo chamber gets glassed in an instant.

Veltoss,

Exactly. And everyone is so ready to argue these days, that there are no discussions, only arguments. If you tried to say “maybe we should focus on the bad things billionaires do instead of dumb tweets” in response to a musk thread, people will simply respond “take musks dick out of your mouth boot licker” and similar insults. That’s not a hypothetical, that’s a near word for word example of how these circlejerks respond to literaly anything that doesn’t line up perfectly with the hivemind.

I’m already seeing some of that on lemmy unfortunately. I hope some communities pop up with stronger moderation against this shit or I may just be done with social media for a while.

tebessa,

Just less outrage, more harmony.

mrdeath,

Emojis

Gif links as comment/replies.

archomrade,

I’m happy to report that it did not let me post an emoji

pizzaiolo,

🤔

SulaymanF,

I happen to love megathreads. When a major breaking news happens I want to discuss it with the community, not read a dozen smaller threads repeating the same.

FoxyZac64,

/r/jailbait

Also no trophy’s, ever. Unless it’s like a Mario Kart Lemmy Tourney. Then sure. But for a sub like that? NOPE.

horizon,

Throphies might be a half decent idea to support server hosting. But you should be able to hide them from settings.

I’m not even sure what they did on Reddit and I’ll probably be fine ignoring them here too.

FoxyZac64,

I meant an actual physical one.

"Years ago, Brutsch created his most infamous Reddit forum called “Jailbait” – images of teenage girls posted without their or their families’ consent. He said it became so popular, drawing hundreds of thousands of page views, that Reddit gave him an award – a gold-plated bobblehead doll “for making significant contributions to the site.”

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