Most people say that it's a rite of passage for beginners to look like mismatched messes gear wise until they get the pretty glamours later down the road. It doesn't have to be that way though, if you know where to look! Here's a thread with gear sets you can get in the free trial with a reasonable amount of work:
I made a #Pixelfed account to post #FFXIV screenshots - mostly glamours, as you do 😅📸🎮 Follow me at https://eorzea.photos/thedragongay if you’re interested! General gaming screenshots will probably just go here but I felt like having a #FFXIVGlamour gallery was something I should do, rather than just having them sit on my phone 😂