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You should be able to ask "I want a CIS mate" in a dating app without being shamed.

There’s this rising narrative going around that if you ask specifically for a CIS partner, you’re a transphobe. That could be true for some people but it’s not fundamentally related to bigotry. Moreover, this narrative, the “if you only want a CIS mate then that is prejudice” is trampling on one of the most important...

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Idk, retusing to date someone based on their race does seem pretty racist to me. I know it’s not the point of the post but like… It’s murky moral territory.

You can’t help who/what your attracted to, true. Even if it might be defined by subconscious prejudice, that might not necessarily be something you can change, totally. But having that conversation… It’s gonna be hurtful, yeah? I think if you have that kinda preference the only easy way to accommodate it is by you advertising it in a general way.

Which only really works for dating apps, the absolute worst way to meet people.

Also, not a big deal, but it’s best to put a space between ‘trans’ and 'men/‘women’. It’s an adjective. They are trans, they are men/women. ‘Transmen’ and ‘transwomen’ makes it seem like you’re designating them seperately.

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Or direct those players to a table of equally horny adventurers and everybody’s happy 😎

CW: Harry Potter. What's your stance on JK Rowling and Hogwarts Legacy (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

Hey there, I’m a mod of c/traa and was recently called out for saying JK Rowling is transphobic and buying the Hogwarts game is a bad idea. I was told that the ‘actual trans people with sense’ are here and agree that playing the Hogwarts game is fine, and so is giving money to a transphobe billionaire. This ally of trans...

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Yeah I boycott all TERFs and encourage my friends to do the same. Just like the chicken place, and the pillow guy, and anyone else who thinks making other people’s lives hell is a valid political stance. Don’t gove those people money if you don’t have to, please. Just pirate it

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A point for Vampire: the Masquerade then

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As soon as my facility went from not-for-profit to privately owned they cut our staffing by around 15% and started aggressively increasing intakes.

Shocker, quality of care dropped.

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Pull yourself up by your bootstraps, eh?

Ok boomer

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Absolutely not. Women are people the same way men are. We ask stupid questions that we didn’t think through purely out of curiosity, and then realize how rude it was on the drive home just like you do.

She may be, but if she is, that’s a godawful opener. I have 0 rizz but something like ‘I like your shoes’ or w/e is never hard to pull.

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As a trans woman, I noticed it started happening fully unintentionally after HRT. It’s anecdotal, but makes me feel like there’s definitely a chemical component because it actually surprised me.

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It kinda came outta nowhere for me, I wasn’t expecting it. But idk, could be ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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I listen to a lot of trans punk (on Spotify), and I gotta say punk makes hate speech seem kinda tame. Stochastic terrorism sucks, and I don’t like being dehumanized, but a lot of the music I listen to on a daily basis calls for outright acts of political violence, mass murder, and dehumanizing political/religous leaders.

I hate that this song exists as much as anyone, but removing it would set a dangerous precedent, so I’m kinda glad they didn’t.

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That’s honestly a great point I hadn’t considered. I’ll have to re-evaluate my stance on the issue

Japanese Supreme Court hands down landmark decision on transgender rights (www.japantimes.co.jp)

Article by Japan Times: “In a landmark decision, the Supreme Court on Wednesday ruled as “unconstitutional” a clause in domestic law that requires transgender people to undergo sterilization surgery to change their gender assigned at birth in their family registry.”

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Amazing! I imagine that was probably a huge obstacle for some people

‘Cyberpunk 2077’ Used AI For A Dead Voice Actor’s Performance, With Permission (www.forbes.com)

There are uses of AI that are proving to be more than black and white. While voice actors, have protested their performances being fed into AI against their will, we are now seeing an example of this being done, with permission, in a very unique case.

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  1. Have them type it a second time phonetically, and let them test it
  2. If single-player? Don’t. If multiplayer? Yeah… that’d be a nightmare lmao
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But Shatha would have presumably published articles before being caught.

Texas Man Allegedly Used Abortion Lawsuit To Blackmail Ex-Wife For Sex (www.huffpost.com)

Marcus Silva filed suit in March against three friends of his ex-wife, Brittni Silva, accusing the friends of helping her obtain abortion pills last summer to illegally terminate an unwanted pregnancy in violation of Texas’ harsh anti-abortion laws....

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Suddenly, I’ve gained a lot of respect for Georgia.

Footage shows Boebert and her date fiddling with each other's privates at "Beetlejuice" musical (www.salon.com)

As more and more details are being revealed about Rep. Lauren Boebert’s wild night out in Denver last weekend — having been kicked out of “Beetlejuice” the musical for vaping and just generally being a public nuisance with her male companion — a full picture is coming together of what the other theater patrons around...

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As a fan of that musical, 10 is… Too low tbh

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Can confirm that. Morning wood goes away, so atrophy can be an issue if you never engage those muscles. Otherwise functions well enough, apart from sperm production obv

Judge dismisses lawsuit by sorority sisters who sought to block a transgender woman from joining (apnews.com)

A judge has dismissed a lawsuit contesting a transgender woman’s admission into a sorority at the University of Wyoming, ruling that he could not override how the private, voluntary organization defined a woman and order that she not belong....

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This explanation certainly makes me feel the least concerned for the new sister, so I hope so!

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Two times a week is sufficient for most people. That’s medical advice straight from every Nurse I’ve worked with 🤷‍♀️

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Voice training is too hard. I’m not lazy I swear

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