devxvda

@devxvda@mastodon.ie

#Neurodivergent, #ActuallyAutistic, #Autistic, #MastoDaoine

Irish, Tech, Linux, SRE, DevOps, K8s, HPC, Learning

I hate myself enough to be a Systems Engineer but not enough to return to academia

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Posts delete after a month, as I believe in the transient nature of life

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devxvda, to random

Holy fuck toric contact lenses are pure magic.

I went from "ehhhh fairly blurry" to "I can read better than 20/20 in my bad eye"

devxvda, to random

Ah yes, the ghost busses are back I see

niamhgarvey, to random

Ordered myself a pair of (ear plugs with specific level of sound reduction) and I cannot wait for them to arrive! They are very expensive so I've been saving to buy them (I paid 44 euro incl. postage), but I keep seeing other people using them successfully so I have wanted them for ages. Bought a pretty pink colour, as I shamelessy adore pink. 🌸

devxvda,

@niamhgarvey ah I could have given you my 15% discount link!!

devxvda, (edited ) to random

Should I have my first ever shower in the Autism Room today?

devxvda,

@Fury Just out of the shower feet I bet.

Saucy minx

devxvda,

The Autism Room is what I call my home office.

It's 20sqm with an additional 3sqm for a bathroom and shower.

Every aspect, from the flooring, lighting, paint colour, and God damn lightbulbs have been chosen to be autism friendly for my specific brand of neurospicy.

It even has a wall bed and reading nook, complete with lounge chair.

devxvda,

FEET

devxvda,

@littlescraps Look at Embrace Autism's blog post on the matter, and ask your library for a copy of "Designing for Autism Spectrum Disorders"

ISBN 9780367030469

This book, and the blog post, cite a lot of GA Architects work. That I have... liberated... for my own needs

devxvda,

@littlescraps You want to ask the library as the paperback is 35 GBP and the hardback is 130 GBP

devxvda,

The towel is lovely. The bath mat is a bit too big for the space. The extractor fan is cromulant.

devxvda,

@littlescraps That's literally what the autism room is. My own little space

devxvda,

@admin Exactly.

I've been working from home, at least a few days a week, for most of my career.

I'm more productive. I have the metrics. Let me be in my own place and no feicken thermostat wars

urbanfoxe, to random

Lately I've being seeing behind the scenes of some 'influencers' and it really is all just staging.

devxvda,

@urbanfoxe of course it is. No one's life is an Instagram reel.

It's an avatar they project onto the world... a mask if you will.

And yet they call us the freaks

devxvda,

@urbanfoxe Yup. It's all for the "content".

Why do you think I DONT put pics up (apart from my feet but that's just a running shitpost).

Life is about living, not some fucked up "look at how perfect everything is".

A family member is a model. I know all the BS

Thapsyrensays, to music

Sometimes the weirdest most random songs get stuck in my head... like why am I thinking about "Bring Me a Higher Love" by Steve Winwood? 💀

devxvda,

@Thapsyrensays Because he wants Valerie to call on me

nena, to random

I want Jon Hamm on his knees in a bad wig playing Lord Farquaad in a live action version of Shrek

devxvda,

@nena I want Jon Hamm on his knees

pauricthelodger, to random
@pauricthelodger@mastodon.social avatar

What the fuck is Aer Lingus at?
Yesterday: flight details look fine. Today at online check-in: we've moved your flights to 3 hours earlier with BA and now you can't check in with us.
No email with the new booking reference (why a new ref?!). In queue for Aer Lingus support for 2 hours now 🙄

devxvda,
devxvda,

@pauricthelodger eu271 refund

devxvda,

@pauricthelodger lol.

Don't use any of the brokers, they are scam artists.

The airline will likely reject the first claim automatically. Escalate.

devxvda,

@pauricthelodger Matt's Planet on YouTube literally just did a video on this.

It's long as it's the EU, but worth a watch

devxvda, to random

I like how people think I'm normal in real life, and not some cosplaying Enron executive with a foot fetish and penchant for cursing worse than a sailor

fuzzyduck, to random

Being in your 40s means getting excited by upcoming optometrist appointments because soon you’ll be able to read words again

devxvda,

@fuzzyduck im trialling toric lenses today and I'm excited.

Kill me

KaCi, to random
@KaCi@autistics.life avatar

What does it mean if you are an highly empathetic person and someone hurt you so much repeatedly, that you don't feel empathy for them any more. I don't wish them any bad and can't find any satisfaction in revenge, but I also don't wish them any good or can be happy for them. It's a kind of indifference and I just want to keep distance. Is this the way how healthy boundaries feel or a kind of unhealthy suppression?

devxvda,

@KaCi "Fuck em"¹
__
¹ Pardon my language²
² Nah, still fuck em

RickiTarr, to random
@RickiTarr@beige.party avatar

Have you tried turning yourself off and turning yourself back on again?

devxvda,

@RickiTarr isn't that what magic mushrooms are for?

devxvda, (edited ) to random

If you're thinking about buying Loop Earplugs, particularly to help with sound sensitivity due to , please use my referral link - https://community.loopearplugs.com/s/dr.nick - and save 15%

I realise this makes me a shill for Loops. My honest opinion of their products are:
Quiets - Great
Experiences - Good
Engage - Horrible

Foam tips - No
Mutes - Meh

If in doubt buy the Plus version of the Experience. You can't use a Mute with the Quiet - unless you want to make a fashion statement.

devxvda,

@independentpen Yeah.

Like I sleep with the Quiets in and cannot hear my alarm. I use the experience with the mutes and silicone tips when out and "still want to have a conversation".

When Quiets when I'm out is "pls f off".

If sleeping with the Quiets don't buy black. Impossible to find under the bed. I have red for sleep, pink for keychain. Experience is black, which is why I know how tricky they can be to find.

I love them both. Engages are still shite tho

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