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Hi! I’m oNevia. I love gaming, design and music. Hit me up if you wanna chat.
She/Her
This profile is from a federated server and may be incomplete. Browse more on the original instance.
Who has been your biggest support during your transition?
And how have they shown that support to you?
Those of you that have children. What does it mean to be a dad or mom to you?
Been a while since I’ve posted here but missed you all!...
What thoughts/memories did you have before coming out, in hindsight, are big signs you were trans?
I feel that I should preface this by warning questioning people that looking for signs is generally not a good way to find out if you’re trans. Different people experience being trans in different ways....
Do you remember the last thing you told yourself was a reason you "couldn't be trans" before your egg cracked?
That last bit of defense before fully realizing your inner beauty 💜
Gloria chilling on the couch ❤️ (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
She may be knockoff but she’s mine 🦈
Do you have a blahaj? If so, what is their name? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
Here is mine ❤️ she may be knock off, but she’s huge beautiful and her name is Gloria. I love her very much :D
Unexpected pros/cons of transitioning
Socially, medically, or otherwise....
What has been the greatest source of euphoria or affirmation through your transition?
Do you have “that one thing” that always feels affirming? Something that you continuously return to because you know it’ll make your day better?
What do you feel was the hardest hurdle to overcome during your transition? What did you learn from that experience?
This could be the biggest step that was hard for you to start. Or maybe there was a particularly stressful time during your transition that really weighed on you....
I was approached in public for being clocked as trans
I was just having a conversation with my wife this morning about my anxiety about the first time I was going to be confronted for my identity. I told her how I felt like it was going to happen soon as I stop passing as cis. Being in a red state in a very rural area makes these anxieties spiral....
Do you wish you were cis? Why or why not?
Or in other words, do you wish you were born “fitting in” to the society we live in? Why or why not?...
Dysphoria got you down? Comment on this post for moral support from your trans siblings!
A lot of us experience dysphoria about a lot of things. Personally, one of my biggest points of dysphoria is my facial/body hair and masculine sounding voice....
Most of us will have to face transphobia and bigotry. How have you learned to respond to this?
What's the story behind your egg cracking?
What is your favorite TV show or movie with good transgender representation?
After your egg cracked, did you have a moment where you looked back at your life and think, "wait, THAT was dysphoria?!"
For those that have started HRT, what was the most surprising change you noticed that you weren't expecting?
I’m still pretty early on in my HRT journey at just under 5 weeks of estradiol IM injections and Spironolactone....
What song or artist has been affirming for you during your transition?
Lately I have been listening to the album “The Blessed Unrest” by Sara Bareilles....
What is something you wish cis people understood?
Personally, for me it’s the idea that just because you don’t experience something (dysphoria, or being a gender other than what society expects of you) that doesn’t mean those experiences aren’t valid....
Republicans Issue New Government Shutdown Threat Over Trans People (USA) (www.erininthemorning.com)
I will be calling my representatives and letting them know that I would sooner see the government shutdown than see any of these proposals become law.
I did it ladies! Today is my BiHRTday
I just took my first Spiro about an hour ago. I’ll be doing my first E injection tonight (after my little one is asleep for the night) and I can not express all of the emotions I have been having over the past few days....
In waiting room for HRT
Hey all,...
Help with figuring out sperm storage
Hey ladies ❤️...
Valentine's Day Ideas?
Hey friends ❤️...
Wanting something desperately but not ready now?
I think I’m struggling a bit on my self acceptance....